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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 187491" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Now that he has told you about this, do you have a plan to protect him? I seriously think this may be part of what is behind the headaches he has had for so long. It takes a LOT of guts to confide something like this, even to your parents. He will be watching you very closely to see what you do. </p><p> </p><p>I agree that this man has no business around children. It will be very hard to prove, and openly telling the baseball association, teachers, CPS or anyone else may expose difficult child to scrutiny and doubts (from others - simply because it was so long ago and because so many people assume that kids "don't remember" or can't remember) that could traumatize him greatly. Be sure you consult difficult child to see what HE wants to happen now. If he does not want to publicly make this known, then an anonymous report to CPS might help get the man out of the baseball association. It would also tell difficult child you want to protect his privacy and confidentiality as much as you want to protect him.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry he went through this. I hope he can come to some peace with this in the future. It iwll likely be a very bumpy road.</p><p> </p><p>Is there a link between when this happened and when you first saw behavior problems?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 187491, member: 1233"] Now that he has told you about this, do you have a plan to protect him? I seriously think this may be part of what is behind the headaches he has had for so long. It takes a LOT of guts to confide something like this, even to your parents. He will be watching you very closely to see what you do. I agree that this man has no business around children. It will be very hard to prove, and openly telling the baseball association, teachers, CPS or anyone else may expose difficult child to scrutiny and doubts (from others - simply because it was so long ago and because so many people assume that kids "don't remember" or can't remember) that could traumatize him greatly. Be sure you consult difficult child to see what HE wants to happen now. If he does not want to publicly make this known, then an anonymous report to CPS might help get the man out of the baseball association. It would also tell difficult child you want to protect his privacy and confidentiality as much as you want to protect him. I am sorry he went through this. I hope he can come to some peace with this in the future. It iwll likely be a very bumpy road. Is there a link between when this happened and when you first saw behavior problems? [/QUOTE]
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