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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 238974" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>I'm so sorry to hear what you've been going through. I hope today is a little more sane. I haven't been arrested via false accusations but my difficult child has lied/continues to lie to the counselors at his outpatient rehab, telling them husband and I are violent, that we pick fights and constantly threaten to kick him out, that we make his life h***, that we constantly drink in front of him and are alcoholics, etc. </p><p></p><p>I took my huge binder of all difficult child's medical and school reports, his false accusations of abuse to the OCY, the many interventions we had for him, and excerpts from my journals recording his violent episodes over many years, and let the counselors read it. They were speechless. </p><p></p><p>Your situation is much more serious and I'm so glad you have a police officer willing to vouch for you. If you have any records, journal entries, reports etc. on your son, gather them up. Write up your own recollection of exactly what happened that night. I hope, given your difficult child's history, that the judge will use common sense. Your difficult child may have had all sorts of street drugs on board by the time you brought him home that night, as well - any stimulant could result in behavior like that. Did the police drug test him? If not, your lawyer can point out that it should have been done. He had been running on the streets, you come and take him home, police have to be called out, then police are called out a second time ... doesn't sound like child abuse. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad you're setting your boundaries and will keep yourself safe from now on. I'm so sorry. Sending hugs and encouragement, and many thoughts and prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katya02, post: 238974, member: 2884"] I'm so sorry to hear what you've been going through. I hope today is a little more sane. I haven't been arrested via false accusations but my difficult child has lied/continues to lie to the counselors at his outpatient rehab, telling them husband and I are violent, that we pick fights and constantly threaten to kick him out, that we make his life h***, that we constantly drink in front of him and are alcoholics, etc. I took my huge binder of all difficult child's medical and school reports, his false accusations of abuse to the OCY, the many interventions we had for him, and excerpts from my journals recording his violent episodes over many years, and let the counselors read it. They were speechless. Your situation is much more serious and I'm so glad you have a police officer willing to vouch for you. If you have any records, journal entries, reports etc. on your son, gather them up. Write up your own recollection of exactly what happened that night. I hope, given your difficult child's history, that the judge will use common sense. Your difficult child may have had all sorts of street drugs on board by the time you brought him home that night, as well - any stimulant could result in behavior like that. Did the police drug test him? If not, your lawyer can point out that it should have been done. He had been running on the streets, you come and take him home, police have to be called out, then police are called out a second time ... doesn't sound like child abuse. I'm glad you're setting your boundaries and will keep yourself safe from now on. I'm so sorry. Sending hugs and encouragement, and many thoughts and prayers. [/QUOTE]
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