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<blockquote data-quote="Deni" data-source="post: 239031" data-attributes="member: 1183"><p>Thanks for all the replies...</p><p></p><p>Star-What is IAD? Are you referring to CPS(Child Protective Services)? If so, I have only talked to the caseworker that came out the night I was arrested. I gave her brief background on difficult child, including his hospitalizations, arrests, past behavior problems, medicines, etc. I also let her know that he was on probation at this time. I have not heard from them since and my attorney told me not to contact them, let them contact me. When they do, I will be more than happy to sign waivers for them to talk to psychiatrists, counselors, schools, officers, church, and anyone else I can think of. One of the psychiatrists he used to see before we transferred to different county told me that if I didn't get difficult child the right help, he would turn out to be suicidal or homicidal and she believed there was a good chance he would hurt me while I was asleep one night.</p><p>My son didn't go to court though, I guess there was a misunderstanding somewhere. However, I do wonder how he is going to take testifying against me in court. Not thinking he will do so well but we will see. I agree with you about his dad's just being a new place to mess up but not sure I can do anything about that but I will bring it up in court.</p><p></p><p>katya02-My difficult child has told many lies about me to many people, I never cared about that. But the fact that he lied and had me arrested and now I am facing my career being totally destroyed forever is way over the line with me. I am heart broken and sad but I am very upset with him as well. Thanks for your support! I will use some of my time off to sit down and type of his history from age 5 on. I never considered street drugs because I have never had a problem with drugs but anything is possible considering the very unusual behavior he displayed(i.e. blowing up for NO reason).</p><p></p><p>bran155-I will never forget he is ill but I cannot take the chance he will pull this again. It is better that I don't have anything to do with him. It will take me a long time to get past this especially if I lose my job over this. I was already experiencing bad feelings toward him because of the abuse and I would fight that every day and go on. I loved him dearly, yet almost daily I heard how much he hated me and how unfair I was. I am gathering statements and such already for the court to show his psychotic behavior and disorders.</p><p></p><p>TerryJ2-You could not have said a more true statement! <em>Sounds like your DEX and your son are two peas in a pod.</em> I think maybe my difficult child was with his father too long for me to be able to teach him the proper way to treat others.</p><p></p><p>busywend-I am just waiting for the day that difficult child starts hitting on dex's wife. I have already told dex don't call me when it happens. She is only about 5'4" 115lbs. I am a pretty big lady and it takes everything I have to keep him off me. She will have no hope. difficult child is 6'2" 234lbs now.</p><p></p><p>susiestar-While I don't think it will be me that dex calls when difficult child starts problems over there, I know he will. And he don't need to call me to come get him because dex and difficult child have sealed that deal. Also, I am sure there are several Officers that would stand up for me, my problem right now is that I am not suppose to discuss this matter with anyone. I will have to take everything through my Lt. but I plan on doing that as well. However, I had already spoken to my Sgt before I was told that I couldn't talk about this issue so he knows and has already volunteered to go to court with me.</p><p></p><p>Again, thanks to everyone for the support. I will continue to try to take this one day at a time.</p><p></p><p>Deni</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni, post: 239031, member: 1183"] Thanks for all the replies... Star-What is IAD? Are you referring to CPS(Child Protective Services)? If so, I have only talked to the caseworker that came out the night I was arrested. I gave her brief background on difficult child, including his hospitalizations, arrests, past behavior problems, medicines, etc. I also let her know that he was on probation at this time. I have not heard from them since and my attorney told me not to contact them, let them contact me. When they do, I will be more than happy to sign waivers for them to talk to psychiatrists, counselors, schools, officers, church, and anyone else I can think of. One of the psychiatrists he used to see before we transferred to different county told me that if I didn't get difficult child the right help, he would turn out to be suicidal or homicidal and she believed there was a good chance he would hurt me while I was asleep one night. My son didn't go to court though, I guess there was a misunderstanding somewhere. However, I do wonder how he is going to take testifying against me in court. Not thinking he will do so well but we will see. I agree with you about his dad's just being a new place to mess up but not sure I can do anything about that but I will bring it up in court. katya02-My difficult child has told many lies about me to many people, I never cared about that. But the fact that he lied and had me arrested and now I am facing my career being totally destroyed forever is way over the line with me. I am heart broken and sad but I am very upset with him as well. Thanks for your support! I will use some of my time off to sit down and type of his history from age 5 on. I never considered street drugs because I have never had a problem with drugs but anything is possible considering the very unusual behavior he displayed(i.e. blowing up for NO reason). bran155-I will never forget he is ill but I cannot take the chance he will pull this again. It is better that I don't have anything to do with him. It will take me a long time to get past this especially if I lose my job over this. I was already experiencing bad feelings toward him because of the abuse and I would fight that every day and go on. I loved him dearly, yet almost daily I heard how much he hated me and how unfair I was. I am gathering statements and such already for the court to show his psychotic behavior and disorders. TerryJ2-You could not have said a more true statement! [I]Sounds like your DEX and your son are two peas in a pod.[/I] I think maybe my difficult child was with his father too long for me to be able to teach him the proper way to treat others. busywend-I am just waiting for the day that difficult child starts hitting on dex's wife. I have already told dex don't call me when it happens. She is only about 5'4" 115lbs. I am a pretty big lady and it takes everything I have to keep him off me. She will have no hope. difficult child is 6'2" 234lbs now. susiestar-While I don't think it will be me that dex calls when difficult child starts problems over there, I know he will. And he don't need to call me to come get him because dex and difficult child have sealed that deal. Also, I am sure there are several Officers that would stand up for me, my problem right now is that I am not suppose to discuss this matter with anyone. I will have to take everything through my Lt. but I plan on doing that as well. However, I had already spoken to my Sgt before I was told that I couldn't talk about this issue so he knows and has already volunteered to go to court with me. Again, thanks to everyone for the support. I will continue to try to take this one day at a time. Deni [/QUOTE]
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