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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 239082" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Hi, Deni. I remember you from some time ago. Like everyone here I am really sorry that you are going through this experience. I strongly support the need to document your difficult children history.</p><p> </p><p>Two more suggestions. Document <strong>your</strong> activities from the time of the incident. It may come in handy for you and/or your attorney. For example it would be good to have an entry showing you spoke with Sgt.X at such & such time then later on had a meeting with Lt.Y who then told you not to speak to anyone. Keep the record of your choices to yourself but have it to cover yourself just in case Ex says you called his house or drove by or whatever...you'll have entries showing what in truth you were doing at that time. It may sound paranoid but it sounds like you need the maximum protection from at least two "loose cannons". Record calls made and received from any and all involved too. If you go to a group or a counseling session, document that too as proof of your efforts.</p><p> </p><p>Secondly, if your telephone doesn't already record incoming calls and take messages that are also recorded by time received...buy a new answering machine. It may be important to have proof that your Ex called or difficult child called or ???</p><p> </p><p>Feel free to post frequently too ease the stress. We will all be here for you. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 239082, member: 35"] Hi, Deni. I remember you from some time ago. Like everyone here I am really sorry that you are going through this experience. I strongly support the need to document your difficult children history. Two more suggestions. Document [B]your[/B] activities from the time of the incident. It may come in handy for you and/or your attorney. For example it would be good to have an entry showing you spoke with Sgt.X at such & such time then later on had a meeting with Lt.Y who then told you not to speak to anyone. Keep the record of your choices to yourself but have it to cover yourself just in case Ex says you called his house or drove by or whatever...you'll have entries showing what in truth you were doing at that time. It may sound paranoid but it sounds like you need the maximum protection from at least two "loose cannons". Record calls made and received from any and all involved too. If you go to a group or a counseling session, document that too as proof of your efforts. Secondly, if your telephone doesn't already record incoming calls and take messages that are also recorded by time received...buy a new answering machine. It may be important to have proof that your Ex called or difficult child called or ??? Feel free to post frequently too ease the stress. We will all be here for you. DDD [/QUOTE]
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