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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 454383" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>One letter won't do it. Janet is on the right track. I think you need to find the head of the agency who runs all of this and take a couple days off work to go to that person's office. Do as Marg has done in the past. take a book, some other project like knitting or whatever you enjoy, a bunch of snacks, thermos of coffee or whatever, and plan to sit there ALL DAY until that person has time to speak to you as long as you feel is appropriate. Don't let them make an appointment with you and then go somewhere. Oldest trick around - make the appointment with the pesky person, then that person leaves to come back at appointment time and the honcho leaves and doesn't return until after the person has left after not getting their appointment.</p><p></p><p>Otherwsie you are not going to get ANY help from these people. Not a teeny bit. I do think if you could get an investigative journalist involved it might get some action, but only in the short term. </p><p></p><p>This entire thing is crazy. About the only other way to get their attention is to turn difficult child over to them for foster care because she is "unmanageable" or a danger to the rest of the family. I am not joking. It won't be fun but given her violence, esp to DS, this may end up being the only way you get ANY help from the "system". </p><p></p><p>I would call the agency that Ms. Ally was from and ask to see the documentation of everything. I would want to know how they said she was not violent. It may be that since you have not called the police and no one has gone to the ER with injuries from her that they concluded she isn't violent. So the answer to that would be to start calling the police but that may not get any help either.</p><p></p><p>I would probably be inclined to ask the idiot to share her crack - it is probably the ONLY way you will EVER understand what is going on with these agencies.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 454383, member: 1233"] One letter won't do it. Janet is on the right track. I think you need to find the head of the agency who runs all of this and take a couple days off work to go to that person's office. Do as Marg has done in the past. take a book, some other project like knitting or whatever you enjoy, a bunch of snacks, thermos of coffee or whatever, and plan to sit there ALL DAY until that person has time to speak to you as long as you feel is appropriate. Don't let them make an appointment with you and then go somewhere. Oldest trick around - make the appointment with the pesky person, then that person leaves to come back at appointment time and the honcho leaves and doesn't return until after the person has left after not getting their appointment. Otherwsie you are not going to get ANY help from these people. Not a teeny bit. I do think if you could get an investigative journalist involved it might get some action, but only in the short term. This entire thing is crazy. About the only other way to get their attention is to turn difficult child over to them for foster care because she is "unmanageable" or a danger to the rest of the family. I am not joking. It won't be fun but given her violence, esp to DS, this may end up being the only way you get ANY help from the "system". I would call the agency that Ms. Ally was from and ask to see the documentation of everything. I would want to know how they said she was not violent. It may be that since you have not called the police and no one has gone to the ER with injuries from her that they concluded she isn't violent. So the answer to that would be to start calling the police but that may not get any help either. I would probably be inclined to ask the idiot to share her crack - it is probably the ONLY way you will EVER understand what is going on with these agencies. [/QUOTE]
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