Sunshineaftertherain
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Hi all...my son is 15
He has been in therapy for 12 years!
His previous psychiatrist has diagnosed him with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), mild, when he was very young.
His current psychiatrist, who has been seing him fior 4 years first diagnosed adhd, she was never confinced about Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD).,,,she also thought about social anxiety disorder.
He has also been seing a good psychologist past 4 years, who says he is confinced its Aspergers.
Lately the psychiatrist is starting to wonder if its not maybe early antisocial/ borderline personality disorder thats unfolding!
He has alot of the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) symptoms, but has alot of friends, he does have some social anxiety and shows emotional disregulation...
BUT...,lately he is becoming more and more abusive towards the rest of the household...he has "stolen" R16 000 of money online for gaming.(from our bankaccount)
2 Months ago he AGAIN stole R4 000 of his dads money, he creared fake accounts, used his dads ID and even stole my creditcard details to subscribe to porn sites and gaming stuff online...he lies as if its no second thought.
He is addicted to gaming, he loves grusome stuff, bloody games...he swears at us.,,he even spit at his farther and threw me with chicken bones!
He is always very sorry afterwards, but usually because he lost some privalidges...
He can be the nicest, sweetest son, but the moment things doesnt go his way or you say no to a request he becomes HULK!
He will lash out towards his younger brother and has pushed him so hard that he got hurt!
This only happens at home! Outside he is this sweet, nice child....
He also soils his pants, EVERY day....
He always blame others for being mean with him, never takes responsibility for his actions, he isnt interested in doing homework, we still need to do it with him...he doesnt see logic in natural consequences.
For any other parents of PD teens or ADS.,,whats your thoughts on this?
We feel isolated, sad, frustrated, overwhelmed and very abused!
He has been in therapy for 12 years!
His previous psychiatrist has diagnosed him with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), mild, when he was very young.
His current psychiatrist, who has been seing him fior 4 years first diagnosed adhd, she was never confinced about Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD).,,,she also thought about social anxiety disorder.
He has also been seing a good psychologist past 4 years, who says he is confinced its Aspergers.
Lately the psychiatrist is starting to wonder if its not maybe early antisocial/ borderline personality disorder thats unfolding!
He has alot of the Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) symptoms, but has alot of friends, he does have some social anxiety and shows emotional disregulation...
BUT...,lately he is becoming more and more abusive towards the rest of the household...he has "stolen" R16 000 of money online for gaming.(from our bankaccount)
2 Months ago he AGAIN stole R4 000 of his dads money, he creared fake accounts, used his dads ID and even stole my creditcard details to subscribe to porn sites and gaming stuff online...he lies as if its no second thought.
He is addicted to gaming, he loves grusome stuff, bloody games...he swears at us.,,he even spit at his farther and threw me with chicken bones!
He is always very sorry afterwards, but usually because he lost some privalidges...
He can be the nicest, sweetest son, but the moment things doesnt go his way or you say no to a request he becomes HULK!
He will lash out towards his younger brother and has pushed him so hard that he got hurt!
This only happens at home! Outside he is this sweet, nice child....
He also soils his pants, EVERY day....
He always blame others for being mean with him, never takes responsibility for his actions, he isnt interested in doing homework, we still need to do it with him...he doesnt see logic in natural consequences.
For any other parents of PD teens or ADS.,,whats your thoughts on this?
We feel isolated, sad, frustrated, overwhelmed and very abused!