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<blockquote data-quote="mazdamama" data-source="post: 502595" data-attributes="member: 12227"><p>I don't blame you for wanting out. So many times in the past I have said the same thing to myself but know of course that my boys have me and that is it.</p><p>David is Aspergers along with developmental delays and the behaviors from those include all the ADHD , ODD and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) traits. He has been having problems at school and <strong>their problem</strong> is that they don't know how to deal with him. David has an IEP that is missing alot of things that should have been in it. Things that were brought up at his last IEP meeting. Right now he is on suspension for punching his reg ed teacher in the back. Well actually he is off as of today but I advised the school and the ESE director that since they could not schedule and IEP review until next Monday aft that he would not return until next Tues. The school is not happy with me at this point but they are the ones in violation of the FAPE laws. Your CC's teacher should be <strong>trained</strong> on how to deal with this child. Often the issues at school get esculated because they do not get the training they need to deal with a child's special needs.</p><p></p><p>I have no idea where you live but check in your area for a Developmental/Behavioral Specialist. Generally you can find those types of specialists in conjunction with a children's hospital. You do not mention why you have raised this child since the agae of six months. Do you have idea if the child's biologcal mother had problems with the pregnancy? Did she drink or do drugs while pregnant with him?</p><p></p><p>Your CC sounds like he is totally frustrated and when he can't get the anger and frustration out the way he should he attacks in an aggressive way. David's suspension was due to no one asking him a simple question. <strong>IF</strong> his teacher had asked him why he did not want her to wear the sweater she was wearing that he was demanding she take off instead of just continuing to say "No, I am cold" she would not have gotten hit. He recalled a woman in Shark 3d wearing the same sweater that had gotten eaten by a shark and was trying to save her from getting eaten. He was in a panic for her safety but she did not catch it by asking "why don't you want me to wear this?". His mind works differently then ours.</p><p></p><p>Do also read up on WrightsLaw and FAPE along with any other educational laws you can find online. Please do not give up on this child yet. Do protect yourself and the rest of the family. My older boy is in a residential treatment center right now and knows that Mom will never give up on him.</p><p></p><p>Alot of what is happening with CC may be due to something during pregnancy. Can you let us know more and we can help you more. All I can tell by your post is that you have an angry child on your hands that is hurting terribly due to something....probably misdiagnosed to boot and you are not getting the help you should be getting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mazdamama, post: 502595, member: 12227"] I don't blame you for wanting out. So many times in the past I have said the same thing to myself but know of course that my boys have me and that is it. David is Aspergers along with developmental delays and the behaviors from those include all the ADHD , ODD and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) traits. He has been having problems at school and [B]their problem[/B] is that they don't know how to deal with him. David has an IEP that is missing alot of things that should have been in it. Things that were brought up at his last IEP meeting. Right now he is on suspension for punching his reg ed teacher in the back. Well actually he is off as of today but I advised the school and the ESE director that since they could not schedule and IEP review until next Monday aft that he would not return until next Tues. The school is not happy with me at this point but they are the ones in violation of the FAPE laws. Your CC's teacher should be [B]trained[/B] on how to deal with this child. Often the issues at school get esculated because they do not get the training they need to deal with a child's special needs. I have no idea where you live but check in your area for a Developmental/Behavioral Specialist. Generally you can find those types of specialists in conjunction with a children's hospital. You do not mention why you have raised this child since the agae of six months. Do you have idea if the child's biologcal mother had problems with the pregnancy? Did she drink or do drugs while pregnant with him? Your CC sounds like he is totally frustrated and when he can't get the anger and frustration out the way he should he attacks in an aggressive way. David's suspension was due to no one asking him a simple question. [B]IF[/B] his teacher had asked him why he did not want her to wear the sweater she was wearing that he was demanding she take off instead of just continuing to say "No, I am cold" she would not have gotten hit. He recalled a woman in Shark 3d wearing the same sweater that had gotten eaten by a shark and was trying to save her from getting eaten. He was in a panic for her safety but she did not catch it by asking "why don't you want me to wear this?". His mind works differently then ours. Do also read up on WrightsLaw and FAPE along with any other educational laws you can find online. Please do not give up on this child yet. Do protect yourself and the rest of the family. My older boy is in a residential treatment center right now and knows that Mom will never give up on him. Alot of what is happening with CC may be due to something during pregnancy. Can you let us know more and we can help you more. All I can tell by your post is that you have an angry child on your hands that is hurting terribly due to something....probably misdiagnosed to boot and you are not getting the help you should be getting. [/QUOTE]
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