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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 204242" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi, and wecome.</p><p>You ARE a good mother. This is not your fault. I have a few questions that could help us help you. You may want to do a signature like I did below.</p><p></p><p>1/Has she ever had any sort of evaluation beyond a regular pediatrician? Has she seen a Developmental Pediatrician or had any sort of evaluation at all? I like NeuroPsychs, even for little ones. They test very thoroughly. It is unusual though to get the final answer as to what is wrong with your child at age three. You can get a "working diagnosis" which is sort of like a temporary diagnosis, but then your child can still qualify for services, usually in public school, and they are free. Maybe she needs a special preschool. I personally really dislike little kids getting stamped hands for being "good." That is going to make your daughter, and others, think they are "bad." And in my opinion she's not bad. She does not seem able to calm down. This can be caused by many things, but it doesn't sound to me like it is her choice or her fault.</p><p></p><p>2/ Are there any psychiatric or substance abuse problems on either side of her family tree? Any mood disorders? Any relatives who are may have any mental illnesses but went undiagnosed?</p><p></p><p>3/How was her early development? I know she was difficult, but did she make good eye contact with you as a baby? Did she cuddle well? Did she speak on time? And I know she likes other kids, but does she interact appropriately with them for her age? (This is a hard question for a three year old, I know). How does she transition? Does it make her rage? Does she play with toys correctly and seem to have a good imagination? Does she ever copy what she hears and repeat it rather than speaking spontaneously?</p><p></p><p>Others will come along. There is a lot of hope that your daughter CAN be a happy kid. You just need to see what is wrong and intervene early <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 204242, member: 1550"] Hi, and wecome. You ARE a good mother. This is not your fault. I have a few questions that could help us help you. You may want to do a signature like I did below. 1/Has she ever had any sort of evaluation beyond a regular pediatrician? Has she seen a Developmental Pediatrician or had any sort of evaluation at all? I like NeuroPsychs, even for little ones. They test very thoroughly. It is unusual though to get the final answer as to what is wrong with your child at age three. You can get a "working diagnosis" which is sort of like a temporary diagnosis, but then your child can still qualify for services, usually in public school, and they are free. Maybe she needs a special preschool. I personally really dislike little kids getting stamped hands for being "good." That is going to make your daughter, and others, think they are "bad." And in my opinion she's not bad. She does not seem able to calm down. This can be caused by many things, but it doesn't sound to me like it is her choice or her fault. 2/ Are there any psychiatric or substance abuse problems on either side of her family tree? Any mood disorders? Any relatives who are may have any mental illnesses but went undiagnosed? 3/How was her early development? I know she was difficult, but did she make good eye contact with you as a baby? Did she cuddle well? Did she speak on time? And I know she likes other kids, but does she interact appropriately with them for her age? (This is a hard question for a three year old, I know). How does she transition? Does it make her rage? Does she play with toys correctly and seem to have a good imagination? Does she ever copy what she hears and repeat it rather than speaking spontaneously? Others will come along. There is a lot of hope that your daughter CAN be a happy kid. You just need to see what is wrong and intervene early :) [/QUOTE]
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