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<blockquote data-quote="Cari Lynn" data-source="post: 390727"><p>Marguerite, I think your right and I know I am partly to blame for this. When I do ask the difficult child a question, the therapist said he finds I ask in a way it gives him an "excuse" or reason for what he is doing. Last night I did that, asked the difficult child if he hated school, is that why he doesn't want to do anything, Dr. B immediately gave me a look and shook his head, so I know and I am trying hard. </p><p></p><p>After reading what you wrote, I also am realizing that difficult child does not, nor will he, take any personal responsibility for anything he has done or did. It is always someone else's fault, or he had to do it because no one would listen. Just the thought that maybe it is time to send him away or get a 60 or 90 day program where he can go makes me physically sick to my stomach. But, it is at the point right now that we watch him like a hawk, we have hidden everything we can, money, liqueur, put safety devices on all our hand guns and locked the ammunition up, even going to take my grandmother's coin collection to my daughters house for her to put away, as while it is in a locked box, who knows what will happen. </p><p></p><p>I also didn't realize that we may be his "target" and yes, I should of said what you mentioned. Live and learn.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cari Lynn, post: 390727"] Marguerite, I think your right and I know I am partly to blame for this. When I do ask the difficult child a question, the therapist said he finds I ask in a way it gives him an "excuse" or reason for what he is doing. Last night I did that, asked the difficult child if he hated school, is that why he doesn't want to do anything, Dr. B immediately gave me a look and shook his head, so I know and I am trying hard. After reading what you wrote, I also am realizing that difficult child does not, nor will he, take any personal responsibility for anything he has done or did. It is always someone else's fault, or he had to do it because no one would listen. Just the thought that maybe it is time to send him away or get a 60 or 90 day program where he can go makes me physically sick to my stomach. But, it is at the point right now that we watch him like a hawk, we have hidden everything we can, money, liqueur, put safety devices on all our hand guns and locked the ammunition up, even going to take my grandmother's coin collection to my daughters house for her to put away, as while it is in a locked box, who knows what will happen. I also didn't realize that we may be his "target" and yes, I should of said what you mentioned. Live and learn..... [/QUOTE]
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