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Bah Humbug!!! Christmas for what reason? Wish we didnt celebrate :(
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 616043"><p>helpangel- yes I have gotten the run around for years, hearing oh your a single mom, your tired, hes a boy, etc! Sorry you heard it too. Isnt it something how CPS is more concerned over the parents who are doing nothing wrong than the parents who cant parent at all? My cousins mom had CPS called multiple times for many reasons, my grandma got them and they went right back with their mom. My uncle wasn't Mr wonderful either but was better than her and they still had the kids with their mom, begging on the streets for money and abusive step dad, alcohol, drugs but those poor kids had to be with her until she died and my uncle got them. My best friends kids dad is violent/drug user and yet.. he has rights and always starts trouble with her but they dont check him!!! Its so sad.</p><p></p><p>Im so sorry you had a nervous breakdown, its ruff and some of you have had a lot worse situation than me. You didnt make me feel anything but encouragement, you, like everyone else here just keeps pulling me back on the track because otherwise I will just sit here and blame all of it on myself and listen to those who say it. I do need to change some ways about me, but I just know something is different with my kids. It makes it harder that my kids half brothers have no issues so another reason I feel im all at fault. I like all of you and all of your opinions and ideas. We all learn from each other and I need to hear things how it is... no matter. But everything has been support <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p></p><p>MidwestMom- No my grandfather blames me not my mom. He says its the way I and my dad raised my kids but than later says he thinks somethings really wrong with my son and thats what affecting my daughter. He has done so much otherwise for us financially and even emotionally. Yes even tho he says there's no other disorders besides Schizophrenia, Downs Syndrome and what his helps daughter has..she is slow.. I cant remember Ill ask 2morrow.He also says that my sons violence can not be hereditary from his dad and cant be something that formed from my mom. I told him the Neurologist even said it can!!! He still doesn't believe and he doesn't live in the same house. As far as blaming everything on my moms issue is my kids dad. He says its also my fault- that with him, the kids would be perfect. Also at times, like recently - he will make a comment " thanks for being a good mom to my kids" etc. So talk about head shaking! I do feel inadequate and guilty from many people about many things and I know Im far from perfect but I also know that my kids are my life and I will do anything I can for them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 616043"] helpangel- yes I have gotten the run around for years, hearing oh your a single mom, your tired, hes a boy, etc! Sorry you heard it too. Isnt it something how CPS is more concerned over the parents who are doing nothing wrong than the parents who cant parent at all? My cousins mom had CPS called multiple times for many reasons, my grandma got them and they went right back with their mom. My uncle wasn't Mr wonderful either but was better than her and they still had the kids with their mom, begging on the streets for money and abusive step dad, alcohol, drugs but those poor kids had to be with her until she died and my uncle got them. My best friends kids dad is violent/drug user and yet.. he has rights and always starts trouble with her but they dont check him!!! Its so sad. Im so sorry you had a nervous breakdown, its ruff and some of you have had a lot worse situation than me. You didnt make me feel anything but encouragement, you, like everyone else here just keeps pulling me back on the track because otherwise I will just sit here and blame all of it on myself and listen to those who say it. I do need to change some ways about me, but I just know something is different with my kids. It makes it harder that my kids half brothers have no issues so another reason I feel im all at fault. I like all of you and all of your opinions and ideas. We all learn from each other and I need to hear things how it is... no matter. But everything has been support :) MidwestMom- No my grandfather blames me not my mom. He says its the way I and my dad raised my kids but than later says he thinks somethings really wrong with my son and thats what affecting my daughter. He has done so much otherwise for us financially and even emotionally. Yes even tho he says there's no other disorders besides Schizophrenia, Downs Syndrome and what his helps daughter has..she is slow.. I cant remember Ill ask 2morrow.He also says that my sons violence can not be hereditary from his dad and cant be something that formed from my mom. I told him the Neurologist even said it can!!! He still doesn't believe and he doesn't live in the same house. As far as blaming everything on my moms issue is my kids dad. He says its also my fault- that with him, the kids would be perfect. Also at times, like recently - he will make a comment " thanks for being a good mom to my kids" etc. So talk about head shaking! I do feel inadequate and guilty from many people about many things and I know Im far from perfect but I also know that my kids are my life and I will do anything I can for them. [/QUOTE]
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