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Bah Humbug!!! Christmas for what reason? Wish we didnt celebrate :(
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 616046" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, you didn't cause this and I personally don't think you should listen to that stuff about it being your fault, even if grandfather is helping grandkids financially. He is helping THEM, not you. Doubt he'd stop if you gently told him that you really are going to put the blame game and the "I could do better parenting" talk off limits. That doesn't help you or the kids and it's garbage talk anyway. I'm glad he doesn't live with you. Maybe you should limit the amount of time and conversation that you have with him. When a child is struggling, there really is no place to worry about who had the "bad" genes. You need to tell your son's and daughter's doctors the truth about their genetics on both sides and to listen to THEM, not grandpa. Maybe Grandpa needs to be spending less time around them. Is he an alcoholic in recovery?</p><p> </p><p>As for ex, he isn't exactly a stellar father. I'd ignore what he says completely.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 616046, member: 1550"] Well, you didn't cause this and I personally don't think you should listen to that stuff about it being your fault, even if grandfather is helping grandkids financially. He is helping THEM, not you. Doubt he'd stop if you gently told him that you really are going to put the blame game and the "I could do better parenting" talk off limits. That doesn't help you or the kids and it's garbage talk anyway. I'm glad he doesn't live with you. Maybe you should limit the amount of time and conversation that you have with him. When a child is struggling, there really is no place to worry about who had the "bad" genes. You need to tell your son's and daughter's doctors the truth about their genetics on both sides and to listen to THEM, not grandpa. Maybe Grandpa needs to be spending less time around them. Is he an alcoholic in recovery? As for ex, he isn't exactly a stellar father. I'd ignore what he says completely. [/QUOTE]
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