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Bah Humbug!!! Christmas for what reason? Wish we didnt celebrate :(
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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 616085" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>Wow after reading that description of their father I was scratching my head wondering if our kids were half siblings? If the X has a son "RJ" born 11/1/02 private message me we need to talk.</p><p></p><p>All this talk about who's gene's these behaviors came from my answer is everyone related and who cares? I've seen identical twins that one was a easy child the other spent whole life in and out of hospitals, juvi and finally prison. </p><p></p><p>The point is you are the parent, trying to do what is best and if they aren't going to help & encourage you they need to ZIP IT! Having you second guessing yourself all the time isn't helping the kids; back when my kids were that age if someone had claimed all was wrong was my parenting we would have become house guests while they showed me how to do it right LOL. No way would I have left my kids alone with those morons though.</p><p></p><p>That stuff is what made me so mad with CPS they would do investigation then send letter along lines of "you haven't done anything wrong but we are ordering you to complete 2 parenting classes within 2 months" then give me a 40 page list of junk that doesn't apply to my kids seriously I didn't need a hispanic substance abuse or Japanese fathers of newborn class - I was a single white woman trying to raise 3 special needs kids while working full time with no help from the father. I needed a nanny or a house keeper not another parenting class... or just enough money to live so I could focus on the kids.</p><p></p><p>About 10 years ago my mother really ticked off many family members by getting genealogy study done. A couple of my sister's kids won't speak to my mom still they are so mad at being notified there is a mutant cancer gene in our gene pool. My response was "of course there is I could have told you that without all those expensive tests"... It's a no brainer in my book grandma died of cancer, aunt & uncle had cancer, mom ovarian then 20yrs later breast cancer, my sister breast, bladder & lung (each primary) ... all thru the family tree on mom's mom's side if accident didn't get them by the time they were 60yo they had cancer all of them. </p><p></p><p>My sisters kids acted like my mom gave them cancer when they heard about the study results. They don't even consider the fact that the gene would have still been there had they not known about it and they wouldn't exist if my sister had not been born (bringing that gene with her). Even if they could remove the "bad" genes at what point do we all become clones or something similar?</p><p></p><p>What concerns me about your son is when doctors hear schizophrenia in family tree they tend to have a knee jerk reaction toward attitude this is all mental. Angel had food sensitivities, sensory issues, GI & thyroid issues that didn't get proper attention until she was 12yo when I took her to a developmental pediatrician. 6 years into treatment for bipolar, ODD & adHd before anyone addressed those issues, she still had bipolar but all those other things were causing the bipolar to be 100 times worse then it ever had to get. </p><p></p><p>Sorry this got so long just when I see someone else looking into the trap that almost took my head off ... </p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 616085, member: 7170"] Wow after reading that description of their father I was scratching my head wondering if our kids were half siblings? If the X has a son "RJ" born 11/1/02 private message me we need to talk. All this talk about who's gene's these behaviors came from my answer is everyone related and who cares? I've seen identical twins that one was a easy child the other spent whole life in and out of hospitals, juvi and finally prison. The point is you are the parent, trying to do what is best and if they aren't going to help & encourage you they need to ZIP IT! Having you second guessing yourself all the time isn't helping the kids; back when my kids were that age if someone had claimed all was wrong was my parenting we would have become house guests while they showed me how to do it right LOL. No way would I have left my kids alone with those morons though. That stuff is what made me so mad with CPS they would do investigation then send letter along lines of "you haven't done anything wrong but we are ordering you to complete 2 parenting classes within 2 months" then give me a 40 page list of junk that doesn't apply to my kids seriously I didn't need a hispanic substance abuse or Japanese fathers of newborn class - I was a single white woman trying to raise 3 special needs kids while working full time with no help from the father. I needed a nanny or a house keeper not another parenting class... or just enough money to live so I could focus on the kids. About 10 years ago my mother really ticked off many family members by getting genealogy study done. A couple of my sister's kids won't speak to my mom still they are so mad at being notified there is a mutant cancer gene in our gene pool. My response was "of course there is I could have told you that without all those expensive tests"... It's a no brainer in my book grandma died of cancer, aunt & uncle had cancer, mom ovarian then 20yrs later breast cancer, my sister breast, bladder & lung (each primary) ... all thru the family tree on mom's mom's side if accident didn't get them by the time they were 60yo they had cancer all of them. My sisters kids acted like my mom gave them cancer when they heard about the study results. They don't even consider the fact that the gene would have still been there had they not known about it and they wouldn't exist if my sister had not been born (bringing that gene with her). Even if they could remove the "bad" genes at what point do we all become clones or something similar? What concerns me about your son is when doctors hear schizophrenia in family tree they tend to have a knee jerk reaction toward attitude this is all mental. Angel had food sensitivities, sensory issues, GI & thyroid issues that didn't get proper attention until she was 12yo when I took her to a developmental pediatrician. 6 years into treatment for bipolar, ODD & adHd before anyone addressed those issues, she still had bipolar but all those other things were causing the bipolar to be 100 times worse then it ever had to get. Sorry this got so long just when I see someone else looking into the trap that almost took my head off ... Nancy [/QUOTE]
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