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Bail raised to $600,000!! insanity!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 636728" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>(sigh) You keep blaming others...your husband, this kid...for your son's crimes. A mask? A pipe? He thought it was FUNYY? I think you don't want to face that your son is not a good person. He has yet to express remorse. It is not just the drugs. He is not drugged now yet he has still not apologized to his victims. I am not sure he is sorry for anything except that he was caught.</p><p></p><p>Your son picked this man to befriend because he likes him. Nobody forced them to be friends. It is on your son.</p><p></p><p>I think whatever happens happens and your son will deserve whatever it is for frightening minors. You seem to even blame the defendants for identifying him when he wore a mask.</p><p></p><p>Not feeling the sympathy for your son.</p><p></p><p>For your sake, I hope you get help for YOU. YOU are the one who needs it. Your son is what he is and will need to change on his own. He doesn't see the criminality of his deeds and that needs to change or he'll keep finding likeminded folks.</p><p></p><p>I have to again urge you into therapy. You are driving yourself nuts because your son is being punished for a legitimate crime. It is something many of us have done at one time or another. However few of our kids did the degree of crime your son participated in. My son is a big con artist and stole and if he had been caught...oh, well. I would have been more in the mode of, "I can't help you now. It's out of my hands. You did the crime, you do the time." I would then hope the consequences would let him sit and think and maybe change.</p><p></p><p>Your son doesn't need your sympathy. He needs help too, but since you can't force it on him...at least get help for you. Believe it or no t, every single one of us cares about you and hopes you will see a professional to learn how to cope. This isn't going to go away.</p><p></p><p>Hugs fkor your hurting heart. Hoping you do try to take care of YOU for once...and that five year old daughter who needs attention and care far more than your son does. Therapy will help you see this situation more clearly and deal with it in a healthy way. Please do it. Do it for your five year old baby.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 636728, member: 1550"] (sigh) You keep blaming others...your husband, this kid...for your son's crimes. A mask? A pipe? He thought it was FUNYY? I think you don't want to face that your son is not a good person. He has yet to express remorse. It is not just the drugs. He is not drugged now yet he has still not apologized to his victims. I am not sure he is sorry for anything except that he was caught. Your son picked this man to befriend because he likes him. Nobody forced them to be friends. It is on your son. I think whatever happens happens and your son will deserve whatever it is for frightening minors. You seem to even blame the defendants for identifying him when he wore a mask. Not feeling the sympathy for your son. For your sake, I hope you get help for YOU. YOU are the one who needs it. Your son is what he is and will need to change on his own. He doesn't see the criminality of his deeds and that needs to change or he'll keep finding likeminded folks. I have to again urge you into therapy. You are driving yourself nuts because your son is being punished for a legitimate crime. It is something many of us have done at one time or another. However few of our kids did the degree of crime your son participated in. My son is a big con artist and stole and if he had been caught...oh, well. I would have been more in the mode of, "I can't help you now. It's out of my hands. You did the crime, you do the time." I would then hope the consequences would let him sit and think and maybe change. Your son doesn't need your sympathy. He needs help too, but since you can't force it on him...at least get help for you. Believe it or no t, every single one of us cares about you and hopes you will see a professional to learn how to cope. This isn't going to go away. Hugs fkor your hurting heart. Hoping you do try to take care of YOU for once...and that five year old daughter who needs attention and care far more than your son does. Therapy will help you see this situation more clearly and deal with it in a healthy way. Please do it. Do it for your five year old baby. [/QUOTE]
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