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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 224279" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>There is a huge part of me that doesn't feel he deserves any help or sympathy. AND I have no sympathy for husband; however, like many of you caught on there's a bigger need to get him "settled" into his new apartment & working so he won't pop in here possibly drunk & with all his anger. </strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>At this point I need him to keep working & bringing in the money. He hasn't shut down or opened a new bank account to deposit his pay checks in. We are civil regarding the finances; as long as all the bills are covered at both residences I believe it will continue to be that way. </strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>We are dealing with a marriage counselor/mediator who is encouraging this along with continuing to treat each other with respect & dignity. The mediator is concerned with the tweedles mental health & our "marriage" issues shouldn't compound things.</strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>husband & I didn't make it out yesterday; kt was in overdrive. I never made it to GPs office though she filled my pain medications with-o seeing me. I see her the first week of January or "I'm toast". </strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>This just needs to be settled so we can move on & see where our little family relationship goes. How we can do the least amount of damage to one another or the children. </strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong>Thank you all for the hugs support & wonderful suggestions. I'm hanging on by a thread & cannot wait for 3 this afternoon when kt leaves for respite. As wm's foster mum has pnemonia I cannot go to see him - she forbids that I enter the house & get sick as well. God bless her! </strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><strong></strong></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 224279, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS][B]There is a huge part of me that doesn't feel he deserves any help or sympathy. AND I have no sympathy for husband; however, like many of you caught on there's a bigger need to get him "settled" into his new apartment & working so he won't pop in here possibly drunk & with all his anger. At this point I need him to keep working & bringing in the money. He hasn't shut down or opened a new bank account to deposit his pay checks in. We are civil regarding the finances; as long as all the bills are covered at both residences I believe it will continue to be that way. We are dealing with a marriage counselor/mediator who is encouraging this along with continuing to treat each other with respect & dignity. The mediator is concerned with the tweedles mental health & our "marriage" issues shouldn't compound things. husband & I didn't make it out yesterday; kt was in overdrive. I never made it to GPs office though she filled my pain medications with-o seeing me. I see her the first week of January or "I'm toast". This just needs to be settled so we can move on & see where our little family relationship goes. How we can do the least amount of damage to one another or the children. Thank you all for the hugs support & wonderful suggestions. I'm hanging on by a thread & cannot wait for 3 this afternoon when kt leaves for respite. As wm's foster mum has pnemonia I cannot go to see him - she forbids that I enter the house & get sick as well. God bless her! [/B][/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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