Don't even know what to call this...but it's bad....potentially very bad. I have two major questions (below). Naturally, I am looking for helpful and empathetic responses as I am hurting and conflicted. We are just coming off of a few really bad weeks with difficult child...she ended up in the hospital for a few days...do not wish to elaborate. husband got a call yesterday from difficult child's landlord. He says that there are electrical problems in the home and he has to have difficult child leave. She has been complaining about the electricity going on and off for the past week. We think that this is more than a coincidence if you get my drift. Even difficult child doesn't totally buy it...noting today's date. He locked her out of the apartment...changing the locks. He said that she is free to call him to pick up her stuff and cats any time she wants. Last night, difficult child stayed at a friend's house. She has 0 money to move anywhere else , etc. I know others have had their difficult children go from house to house and the truth is because difficult child is on disability and husband is the D. Payee, it should only be a month or two, before she has enough money and hopefully can find another garage apt. to move into. And difficult child has pulled off miracles before (not sure she can this time though). Q #1: But this feels bad...really bad. Who has been through this and can you comment? Q #2: I called NAMI and they gave me the name of an attorney to inquire about Guardianship. Pros/Cons? What about having someone declared incompetent for the long term? Pros/cons? Has anyone done any of these things and what were the results? Thank you.