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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 583708"><p>husband will not discus this calmly. An attempt to talk about it and try to convince him will result in him raising his voice and listing the reasons why he was right. Plus throwing in anything he can about my behavior to distract from his own behavior. Then he will go hide from everyone with nothing being resolved. </p><p></p><p>Email would go over better but won't convince him. Last night he was certain what he was doing was o.k. because he was being careful. He probably won't do it again. He has his own PTSD issues from mother in law. Now he will probably go hide from everyone for at least a few days. In the past its been as much as a few months. Luckily he is so busy with school and work that I can tell the kids (truthfully) that husband is busy. An email or talk about it would lengthen this hiding time. </p><p></p><p>Thank you for understanding that husband is not an abusive monster like x. He was overwhelmed by the screaming. He does have ear plugs and headphones that he has used to drown out the kids noise before. He just cidn't use them this time. I guess the sensory issue was to much for him to think straight at the moment. He said several times last night "but you can hear her downstairs".</p><p></p><p>I haven't had PTSD increase like I thought it would. </p><p></p><p>Thankyou for responding. Especially Lisa. It helps to hear about Fred. Buster is up I'd better go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 583708"] husband will not discus this calmly. An attempt to talk about it and try to convince him will result in him raising his voice and listing the reasons why he was right. Plus throwing in anything he can about my behavior to distract from his own behavior. Then he will go hide from everyone with nothing being resolved. Email would go over better but won't convince him. Last night he was certain what he was doing was o.k. because he was being careful. He probably won't do it again. He has his own PTSD issues from mother in law. Now he will probably go hide from everyone for at least a few days. In the past its been as much as a few months. Luckily he is so busy with school and work that I can tell the kids (truthfully) that husband is busy. An email or talk about it would lengthen this hiding time. Thank you for understanding that husband is not an abusive monster like x. He was overwhelmed by the screaming. He does have ear plugs and headphones that he has used to drown out the kids noise before. He just cidn't use them this time. I guess the sensory issue was to much for him to think straight at the moment. He said several times last night "but you can hear her downstairs". I haven't had PTSD increase like I thought it would. Thankyou for responding. Especially Lisa. It helps to hear about Fred. Buster is up I'd better go. [/QUOTE]
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