Mr. I. sees his parents very regularly. Mom is a difficult child. Yes he has to go, it's court ordered. While Mr. I. was with bio mom last week, she damaged a pair of shoes (with her fingernail) and then insisted the give them to her for a lower price. Grrr... this woman is really something else. Then she tells me that Mr. I. needs to know how to do these things. WHAT! He needs to learn to steal and scam?! How do I explain to him that this is wrong with out saying mom is wrong. He loves her, but I really just want to say to him, "Mom's a thief!" Do not act like her! I swear I want to see a condom commercial with a horrible young mom being a jerk to her kids and saying "Think this is wrong? Don't let her have your kids!" Anyway got any advice on how to explain right from wrong with out being judgmental?