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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 295872" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Kelly, </p><p> </p><p>Okay I have to chuckle because - back a month ago - Nancy said I was not "real" then she talked to me on the phone at the board reunion and I am real. lol - So tell your husband that despite us being just words on a board we really are real, our words are no less caring or heart felt. </p><p> </p><p>So, now you know. It's cancer. I was listening to a motivational speaker not too long ago and he said "Isn't it odd, that when we are waiting on the impending news of some crisis - MAYBE loosing our jobs, MAYBE loosing our house, MAYBE we have an illness, MAYBE our children are in serious trouble - we are a wreck. It's like our brains go into -WDID mode or What DO I DO mode. But if we are told - You HAVE lost your job, you DID loose your home, you DO have emphysema, and your child IS going to jail, it's hard but your brain DEALS with it and goes into - HERE IS WHAT I WILL HAVE TO DO mode and somehow it rises above the stress of WDID mode and is able to think more clearly about the options of it's either this or that not well we could do this or this or this or this or this or this or THAT. Limiting our options sometimes as humans is a much better thing and allows us to concentrate on a solid game plan and get more positive results. </p><p> </p><p>So despite what most people would look at and say "this is awful news" - because it could be and it is.....I'm going to ask you to not limit your thinking to awful, but think of it as now you have an answer - concentrate on your game plan and work hard to gain more positive results. The WHAT(diagnoses) isn't the important part of this any longer - the GOAL (solid game plan for positive results and cure) IS. </p><p> </p><p>And as far as your husband. Honey - he loves you more than anyone- and he's just as scared if not more than you are - dont' forget that. All the tough skinned, macho bravado can go away like (snap) when it comes to thinking that anything over a scraped knee could happen to someone he loves as dearly and deeply as you - so when he's a little terse or crabby or snappy - keep in mind that he's going through this too. NOT like you but right beside you. </p><p> </p><p>Many hugs & prayers - keep us updated as you can. </p><p>Still.....expect a miracle. </p><p>Love</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 295872, member: 4964"] Kelly, Okay I have to chuckle because - back a month ago - Nancy said I was not "real" then she talked to me on the phone at the board reunion and I am real. lol - So tell your husband that despite us being just words on a board we really are real, our words are no less caring or heart felt. So, now you know. It's cancer. I was listening to a motivational speaker not too long ago and he said "Isn't it odd, that when we are waiting on the impending news of some crisis - MAYBE loosing our jobs, MAYBE loosing our house, MAYBE we have an illness, MAYBE our children are in serious trouble - we are a wreck. It's like our brains go into -WDID mode or What DO I DO mode. But if we are told - You HAVE lost your job, you DID loose your home, you DO have emphysema, and your child IS going to jail, it's hard but your brain DEALS with it and goes into - HERE IS WHAT I WILL HAVE TO DO mode and somehow it rises above the stress of WDID mode and is able to think more clearly about the options of it's either this or that not well we could do this or this or this or this or this or this or THAT. Limiting our options sometimes as humans is a much better thing and allows us to concentrate on a solid game plan and get more positive results. So despite what most people would look at and say "this is awful news" - because it could be and it is.....I'm going to ask you to not limit your thinking to awful, but think of it as now you have an answer - concentrate on your game plan and work hard to gain more positive results. The WHAT(diagnoses) isn't the important part of this any longer - the GOAL (solid game plan for positive results and cure) IS. And as far as your husband. Honey - he loves you more than anyone- and he's just as scared if not more than you are - dont' forget that. All the tough skinned, macho bravado can go away like (snap) when it comes to thinking that anything over a scraped knee could happen to someone he loves as dearly and deeply as you - so when he's a little terse or crabby or snappy - keep in mind that he's going through this too. NOT like you but right beside you. Many hugs & prayers - keep us updated as you can. Still.....expect a miracle. Love Star [/QUOTE]
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