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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 295909" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>Ok. You have the results now. They HOOVER but now you know what you're dealing with. But as everyone else said...there are many treatment options for bc and it is curable. You will get through this and we will be right there with you the entire way.</p><p></p><p>I had a health scare some years ago. It turned out to be minor and easily taken care of but it was quite a few days before I knew. But something I learned then, may be able to help you at least a little. When I first had the initial talk with the doctor and we called my husband to come to the doctor's office, I was a mess. I held it together in the building but started crying when we went outside. husband was a big comfort but, at that particular moment, maybe too much of a comfort. He would say exactly the right thing to calm me down and get me to stop crying but the thing was.....I NEEDED to cry and get that out. Later that day I finally told him to let me cry but if he wanted to "do" something, he could just physically be there with me while I cried. I just needed to get it out. Once I did, yes I was still scared, but I got all of that initial shock/adrenaline/whatever out and I felt better. It was like I purged my body of the worst of the negative emotions and was better prepared to deal with whatever came next. Make sense?</p><p></p><p>My point is...no matter how strong you are and how determined, there may be times when you want to cry. Do it. If you feel you have to do it away from husband or anyone, fine...but still, do it. It's a way (or at least it was for me) to release some of the fear, the anger and whatever else, so that you can more easily move on to the next step or even just face that day better.</p><p></p><p>Also, it seems that a lot of the board husbands don't "get" us.....because we're words on a computer, somehow we're still strangers. To that I say PPPPPPPPPPPPPBBBBBBBBBBBBTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!! We are real, we are HERE and we are FRIENDS!!!! Cleveland was proof of that. For example...Ktmom was blaming me for the 60 books she has on her ereader just because I posted about a review site and she signed up for it. When I found her at dinner, I didn't bother introducing myself...she already knows me! Instead, I just walked up and started giving her carap right back as if we had known each other for awhile. Because.....we HAVE.</p><p></p><p>So yeah, we're real and we're here for you. We may not be there in person, but we're there nonetheless.</p><p></p><p>Chin up girl! You'll get through this, you'll BEAT this and we'll be right there with you. HUGS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 295909, member: 2459"] Ok. You have the results now. They HOOVER but now you know what you're dealing with. But as everyone else said...there are many treatment options for bc and it is curable. You will get through this and we will be right there with you the entire way. I had a health scare some years ago. It turned out to be minor and easily taken care of but it was quite a few days before I knew. But something I learned then, may be able to help you at least a little. When I first had the initial talk with the doctor and we called my husband to come to the doctor's office, I was a mess. I held it together in the building but started crying when we went outside. husband was a big comfort but, at that particular moment, maybe too much of a comfort. He would say exactly the right thing to calm me down and get me to stop crying but the thing was.....I NEEDED to cry and get that out. Later that day I finally told him to let me cry but if he wanted to "do" something, he could just physically be there with me while I cried. I just needed to get it out. Once I did, yes I was still scared, but I got all of that initial shock/adrenaline/whatever out and I felt better. It was like I purged my body of the worst of the negative emotions and was better prepared to deal with whatever came next. Make sense? My point is...no matter how strong you are and how determined, there may be times when you want to cry. Do it. If you feel you have to do it away from husband or anyone, fine...but still, do it. It's a way (or at least it was for me) to release some of the fear, the anger and whatever else, so that you can more easily move on to the next step or even just face that day better. Also, it seems that a lot of the board husbands don't "get" us.....because we're words on a computer, somehow we're still strangers. To that I say PPPPPPPPPPPPPBBBBBBBBBBBBTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!! We are real, we are HERE and we are FRIENDS!!!! Cleveland was proof of that. For example...Ktmom was blaming me for the 60 books she has on her ereader just because I posted about a review site and she signed up for it. When I found her at dinner, I didn't bother introducing myself...she already knows me! Instead, I just walked up and started giving her carap right back as if we had known each other for awhile. Because.....we HAVE. So yeah, we're real and we're here for you. We may not be there in person, but we're there nonetheless. Chin up girl! You'll get through this, you'll BEAT this and we'll be right there with you. HUGS [/QUOTE]
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