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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 162022" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Heather, I'm so sorry that you are in so much pain. Does anyone else in your family have a history of this? It would be really helpful if you could talk to someone who has been through this and you're sure that it's the same thing that is going on with you. All I can advise is that </p><p>you have to let some of those things go. The only way to know for sure is to do one thing, then take a break and see if in 15 - 20 minutes you're up to doing another. You can't do it all at once.</p><p></p><p>I hope that easy child will be ok at his dad's house. It may be time for you to help him to talk to his dad about what he wants from time spent together. He's a bit old for extended visits. He has his own life and friends at home. There aren't many kids his age that will tolerate regularly scheduled visits or extended with a non-custodial parent. Your ex needs to know that your son is not a little boy anymore, and it's time for them to find their own relationship, not the one that the courts set up for them all those years ago.</p><p></p><p>{{{{{{{{Big hugs}}}}}}}}}</p><p></p><p>And take it easy on yourself!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 162022, member: 99"] Heather, I'm so sorry that you are in so much pain. Does anyone else in your family have a history of this? It would be really helpful if you could talk to someone who has been through this and you're sure that it's the same thing that is going on with you. All I can advise is that you have to let some of those things go. The only way to know for sure is to do one thing, then take a break and see if in 15 - 20 minutes you're up to doing another. You can't do it all at once. I hope that easy child will be ok at his dad's house. It may be time for you to help him to talk to his dad about what he wants from time spent together. He's a bit old for extended visits. He has his own life and friends at home. There aren't many kids his age that will tolerate regularly scheduled visits or extended with a non-custodial parent. Your ex needs to know that your son is not a little boy anymore, and it's time for them to find their own relationship, not the one that the courts set up for them all those years ago. {{{{{{{{Big hugs}}}}}}}}} And take it easy on yourself! [/QUOTE]
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