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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 490521" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Yes. not so much lately...</p><p>Absolutely.</p><p>Well... you don't. </p><p></p><p>Did you just say "huh?" Ya. I know. </p><p></p><p>In our experience... you don't solve it with consequences.</p><p></p><p> Insecure attachment generates all sorts of symptoms. This is one of them.</p><p>And yes - their behavior works against trust and relationship building... </p><p>But... unless and until there is a relatively secure and healthy attachment (not extreme either way...) I don't believe you will make much progress on the "blame game".</p><p></p><p>Now... minor caveat.</p><p>IF consequences work... then you're NOT dealing with an attachment issue.</p><p>But... if consequences were working, this thread would not have been started.</p><p></p><p>Just my opinion (perhaps off the wall like usual)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 490521, member: 11791"] Yes. not so much lately... Absolutely. Well... you don't. Did you just say "huh?" Ya. I know. In our experience... you don't solve it with consequences. Insecure attachment generates all sorts of symptoms. This is one of them. And yes - their behavior works against trust and relationship building... But... unless and until there is a relatively secure and healthy attachment (not extreme either way...) I don't believe you will make much progress on the "blame game". Now... minor caveat. IF consequences work... then you're NOT dealing with an attachment issue. But... if consequences were working, this thread would not have been started. Just my opinion (perhaps off the wall like usual) [/QUOTE]
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