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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 490678" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>I get it. It has been a sore spot for years. No matter how I think through it. Just plain hurts! And it doesn't matter what you do and how you guard your heart (as most of us have learned to do being super parents). I have been the blame for everything. I am the one who seeks help, sets boundaries, consequences, takes 'em to the doctor, communicates with school, cleans, does most of the cooking, listening, loving, transporting, rewarding, researching etc. I am the problem because I am available! ( I also am not going away and difficult child knows it-easy target)</p><p></p><p>I have had dreams (recently and in the past), of leaving it all. Letting them all just stew in their own juices and try to figure it out. Trouble is, they would call in a missing person's report and I'd have to go back! Better not to know what peace feels like. Ha! (((Hugs))) super mom! (dont forget that ever)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 490678, member: 11001"] I get it. It has been a sore spot for years. No matter how I think through it. Just plain hurts! And it doesn't matter what you do and how you guard your heart (as most of us have learned to do being super parents). I have been the blame for everything. I am the one who seeks help, sets boundaries, consequences, takes 'em to the doctor, communicates with school, cleans, does most of the cooking, listening, loving, transporting, rewarding, researching etc. I am the problem because I am available! ( I also am not going away and difficult child knows it-easy target) I have had dreams (recently and in the past), of leaving it all. Letting them all just stew in their own juices and try to figure it out. Trouble is, they would call in a missing person's report and I'd have to go back! Better not to know what peace feels like. Ha! (((Hugs))) super mom! (dont forget that ever) [/QUOTE]
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