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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 350150" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>Oh my goodness, do these trained professionals have a clue as to what they are doing? I am at this point am getting really sick of this. I explained to her supervisor what went on and she said she would talk to her definately. She really blew me off. She asked a little about my situation and I explained that my daughter right now is being physically abusive and that at times I have to have her removed from the house. She asked me how much did my 11 year old weigh????? OMG, I am frustrated. Always the insuation that you aren't parenting correctly, that you are letting a small child hurt you. I am frustrated sorry. I wonder how much you have to weight to throw something across the room and hit someone with it. She bit me last week, I wonder how weight had anything to do with that. Is it my fault because she weighs less than me and can at sometimes overpower me when she is in a rage? I am out of shape, overweight and beyond stressed. I have been looked at with a fine tooth comb, my child has been talked to about my parenting. I look for any new parenting techniques that might help. Anything, I'll do it. I would say I was wrong in a second if it would change our situation, I would do it differently if it helped. I guess if I said that I weighed 5 lbs less than my daughter than they could understand that size doesn't matter when it comes to physical, emotional and verbal abuse. I am at a total loss. I honestly do not know what to think. I feel right now that everything I have been trying to do was wrong and that these agencies really don't want to help you. That means work for them. Being vindictive is not something really in my makeup if it is it's buried, but right now I feel as if they have really talked down to the wrong parent. I have had nothing but respect for most of the people that have helped us. I don't understand how they can possibly deal with it, I don't have the patience after all of this and no desire to deal with anymore kids with troubles, mine exhausts me. I wish this lady that blasted me would have sat down with me as a professional and explained her version of how things are suppose to work. If I was doing something incorrectly I had no idea. I have been told that I didn't, but regardless none of these places are on the same page. They do not seem to want to work together to help our family, they all talk about the other agency and what their "real agenda" is. We are getting a wrap, set up by information that I received on this blog. I called them and they are an interagency group that is created by state legislature to coordinate services for our family. They have a list of the agencies that we have sought help from. They will find out what we have received and what was not offered and get needed services and find funding. This is all going to blow up and I guess they are going to think that I am a total nut job or they will know that I want help for my child and am going to make that happen somehow. She's 11 years old and I think she is worth fighting for. I am so disappointed and angered by her behavior. Lot's of disbelief as to how far she goes with these rages but I still want her to be okay, to have some happiness and to learn to like herself. For that to happen I feel we definately need some help. Thank you for letting me vent, for the support and information. You all are so great!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 350150, member: 8787"] Oh my goodness, do these trained professionals have a clue as to what they are doing? I am at this point am getting really sick of this. I explained to her supervisor what went on and she said she would talk to her definately. She really blew me off. She asked a little about my situation and I explained that my daughter right now is being physically abusive and that at times I have to have her removed from the house. She asked me how much did my 11 year old weigh????? OMG, I am frustrated. Always the insuation that you aren't parenting correctly, that you are letting a small child hurt you. I am frustrated sorry. I wonder how much you have to weight to throw something across the room and hit someone with it. She bit me last week, I wonder how weight had anything to do with that. Is it my fault because she weighs less than me and can at sometimes overpower me when she is in a rage? I am out of shape, overweight and beyond stressed. I have been looked at with a fine tooth comb, my child has been talked to about my parenting. I look for any new parenting techniques that might help. Anything, I'll do it. I would say I was wrong in a second if it would change our situation, I would do it differently if it helped. I guess if I said that I weighed 5 lbs less than my daughter than they could understand that size doesn't matter when it comes to physical, emotional and verbal abuse. I am at a total loss. I honestly do not know what to think. I feel right now that everything I have been trying to do was wrong and that these agencies really don't want to help you. That means work for them. Being vindictive is not something really in my makeup if it is it's buried, but right now I feel as if they have really talked down to the wrong parent. I have had nothing but respect for most of the people that have helped us. I don't understand how they can possibly deal with it, I don't have the patience after all of this and no desire to deal with anymore kids with troubles, mine exhausts me. I wish this lady that blasted me would have sat down with me as a professional and explained her version of how things are suppose to work. If I was doing something incorrectly I had no idea. I have been told that I didn't, but regardless none of these places are on the same page. They do not seem to want to work together to help our family, they all talk about the other agency and what their "real agenda" is. We are getting a wrap, set up by information that I received on this blog. I called them and they are an interagency group that is created by state legislature to coordinate services for our family. They have a list of the agencies that we have sought help from. They will find out what we have received and what was not offered and get needed services and find funding. This is all going to blow up and I guess they are going to think that I am a total nut job or they will know that I want help for my child and am going to make that happen somehow. She's 11 years old and I think she is worth fighting for. I am so disappointed and angered by her behavior. Lot's of disbelief as to how far she goes with these rages but I still want her to be okay, to have some happiness and to learn to like herself. For that to happen I feel we definately need some help. Thank you for letting me vent, for the support and information. You all are so great!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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