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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 354306" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>He expects you to spend more than three hours in a car to bring him PILLOWS when he just sent you that letter?? I hope and pray you do NOT go.</p><p></p><p>Tell him he cannot spew that filth on you, try to triangulate between you and husband, and still expect things like that. NO. FREAKIN. WAY. IN. HADES. </p><p></p><p>If he wants to treat you with respect he is welcome to come home. If he wants to discuss things in a respectful way, he is welcome to discuss them. Letters are simply another form of discussion. One "do over" may be permissable, but further letters will have the result of son having to find funding for the rest of his education and life all by his ownself. NO WAY should you pay so many thousands of dollars for him to mistreat you.</p><p></p><p>I am SURE he will be SHOCKED that his letter would have such a result. Poor little him. </p><p></p><p>The bean counting of pain and suffering needs to stop. he is an adult. Yes, he has pain. Everyone does. Yes, he problem does object to some things you did. You did your best, and are doing your best. If he has that many problems with you, he needs to separate and go his own way on his own dime, so that he won't be further traumatized by you.</p><p></p><p>Overall, him telling you what you can feel, do, say and even think is out of bounds. ESP the way he did it. Let him know this. Let him know that regardless of lifestyle, this is NOT ok and will NOT be tolerated or funded with YOUR dollars. </p><p></p><p>It should be his choice. Act reasonable and like a respectful child (even if he disagrees he is still your child and should treat you with respect) and stay connected to family and to the family purse, or act unreasonably and disrespectfully with no connection to the family and the family purse. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry he is such an entitled brat bent on hurting you so profoundly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 354306, member: 1233"] He expects you to spend more than three hours in a car to bring him PILLOWS when he just sent you that letter?? I hope and pray you do NOT go. Tell him he cannot spew that filth on you, try to triangulate between you and husband, and still expect things like that. NO. FREAKIN. WAY. IN. HADES. If he wants to treat you with respect he is welcome to come home. If he wants to discuss things in a respectful way, he is welcome to discuss them. Letters are simply another form of discussion. One "do over" may be permissable, but further letters will have the result of son having to find funding for the rest of his education and life all by his ownself. NO WAY should you pay so many thousands of dollars for him to mistreat you. I am SURE he will be SHOCKED that his letter would have such a result. Poor little him. The bean counting of pain and suffering needs to stop. he is an adult. Yes, he has pain. Everyone does. Yes, he problem does object to some things you did. You did your best, and are doing your best. If he has that many problems with you, he needs to separate and go his own way on his own dime, so that he won't be further traumatized by you. Overall, him telling you what you can feel, do, say and even think is out of bounds. ESP the way he did it. Let him know this. Let him know that regardless of lifestyle, this is NOT ok and will NOT be tolerated or funded with YOUR dollars. It should be his choice. Act reasonable and like a respectful child (even if he disagrees he is still your child and should treat you with respect) and stay connected to family and to the family purse, or act unreasonably and disrespectfully with no connection to the family and the family purse. I am sorry he is such an entitled brat bent on hurting you so profoundly. [/QUOTE]
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