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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 222693" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>We have an old saying: "The pixie follows along"</p><p> </p><p>It means that you can send her anywhere but the issues will follow along. At the boarding school the risk is that she would catch a guy from the local community or at the school and she will be kicked out.</p><p> </p><p>You can also choose that kind of boarding school where they are kept in a "bubble" as a two year long timeout before returning to the same environment they left and fail within months.</p><p> </p><p>Change has to come from within.</p><p> </p><p>It is the wrong time of the year. She could need some outbound experiences. Not exactly wilderness therapy, but something where she learn something about self-esteem.</p><p> </p><p>My old manager (a woman) said: "Young men are primitive and live like animals trying to secure the survival of their genes by putting it into as many women as possible" and "Women have to be picky so then can find the most superiour genes to mix theirs with in order to achieve the best chances for the survival of their off-spring". This is conflicting interests.</p><p> </p><p>You have to find a method to let her feel that she is worth a lot instead of putting her down due to her actions. Only if she feels better than the guys she will play hard to get. That takes a good self-esteem. The trick is to give her that.</p><p> </p><p>Because it is winter. I am out of ideas. Most outbound activities take place during the summer. I will pray for you to find a solution for her where she will learn how to think a lot better about herself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 222693, member: 6326"] We have an old saying: "The pixie follows along" It means that you can send her anywhere but the issues will follow along. At the boarding school the risk is that she would catch a guy from the local community or at the school and she will be kicked out. You can also choose that kind of boarding school where they are kept in a "bubble" as a two year long timeout before returning to the same environment they left and fail within months. Change has to come from within. It is the wrong time of the year. She could need some outbound experiences. Not exactly wilderness therapy, but something where she learn something about self-esteem. My old manager (a woman) said: "Young men are primitive and live like animals trying to secure the survival of their genes by putting it into as many women as possible" and "Women have to be picky so then can find the most superiour genes to mix theirs with in order to achieve the best chances for the survival of their off-spring". This is conflicting interests. You have to find a method to let her feel that she is worth a lot instead of putting her down due to her actions. Only if she feels better than the guys she will play hard to get. That takes a good self-esteem. The trick is to give her that. Because it is winter. I am out of ideas. Most outbound activities take place during the summer. I will pray for you to find a solution for her where she will learn how to think a lot better about herself. [/QUOTE]
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