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bought a safe last night I was too late
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<blockquote data-quote="neajle" data-source="post: 14075" data-attributes="member: 1318"><p>Grace, have you gone to talk to a drug counselor? When my son was in rehab we had to attend a parent meeting and they said that you can find drug counselors in the phone book. They are familiar with all of these problems and some times can help you help yourself in letting go. I too have been there done that. Putting things away is no way to live. I finally had to put everything in to safe deposit boxes at the bank. But that was after all of our stuff was stolen and sold or pawned. It is not a nice place to live with a drug addict that will not get help for himself. As long as you</p><p>enable him (give him a place to stay, food, clean clothes etc.) he will never change. I want to see you happy again, I want you to be able to lay some change on a counter and not be afraid of it being gone two seconds later. They will find a way to get and take anything, even if it is bolted down. They think that they have the right to do so.</p><p></p><p>Please try to get some help for yourself so that you can help him, okay.</p><p></p><p>It is really hard to stop the enabling, not everybody can do it.</p><p></p><p>God bless</p><p></p><p>jean</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neajle, post: 14075, member: 1318"] Grace, have you gone to talk to a drug counselor? When my son was in rehab we had to attend a parent meeting and they said that you can find drug counselors in the phone book. They are familiar with all of these problems and some times can help you help yourself in letting go. I too have been there done that. Putting things away is no way to live. I finally had to put everything in to safe deposit boxes at the bank. But that was after all of our stuff was stolen and sold or pawned. It is not a nice place to live with a drug addict that will not get help for himself. As long as you enable him (give him a place to stay, food, clean clothes etc.) he will never change. I want to see you happy again, I want you to be able to lay some change on a counter and not be afraid of it being gone two seconds later. They will find a way to get and take anything, even if it is bolted down. They think that they have the right to do so. Please try to get some help for yourself so that you can help him, okay. It is really hard to stop the enabling, not everybody can do it. God bless jean [/QUOTE]
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