Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Boy does he move quick
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 87943" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Karen, I'm somewhat worried about you. You have gotten hit with some tremendous blows the last few months. You lost your Mom and now your marriage. Not to mention that you moved and your STB ex is dating. </p><p></p><p>I am worried that you have buried your feelings about all of these losses so deeply that you will really crumble one of these days. </p><p></p><p>How could you not?</p><p></p><p>Your ex is a horse's patoot but he was still your husband for almost 3 decades and you are giving up a way of life for that long, too. That's a heckuva blow even if your anger has replaced any feelings of sorrow. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, I guess I want to second what busywend is saying: </p><p></p><p> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">But, if ever you get the blues about this - you better feel free to come here with that as well. Just because we help you bash him does not mean we can not cry with you, too if need be. </div></div></p><p></p><p>And I want you to take a deep breath and <em>feel</em> the feelings. If you don't reflect and grieve I fear that you will get smacked upside the head with overwhelming rage and grief when you least expect it. And if anyone deserves to get smacked upside the head it's your ex, not you.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 87943, member: 29"] Karen, I'm somewhat worried about you. You have gotten hit with some tremendous blows the last few months. You lost your Mom and now your marriage. Not to mention that you moved and your STB ex is dating. I am worried that you have buried your feelings about all of these losses so deeply that you will really crumble one of these days. How could you not? Your ex is a horse's patoot but he was still your husband for almost 3 decades and you are giving up a way of life for that long, too. That's a heckuva blow even if your anger has replaced any feelings of sorrow. Anyway, I guess I want to second what busywend is saying: <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">But, if ever you get the blues about this - you better feel free to come here with that as well. Just because we help you bash him does not mean we can not cry with you, too if need be. </div></div> And I want you to take a deep breath and [i]feel[/i] the feelings. If you don't reflect and grieve I fear that you will get smacked upside the head with overwhelming rage and grief when you least expect it. And if anyone deserves to get smacked upside the head it's your ex, not you. Hugs, Suz [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Boy does he move quick
Top