ex called bff Jill today to tell her that he's dating this girl that lives down the street from her now and that he plans on telling me but hasn't had the chance yet, but if I find out before hand it's o.k. for her to tell me that yes he is dating her and he planned on telling me when he gets back from VT next week, but just didn't have the chance before hand. She told him she is not going to tell me because she knows he's just trying to ger her to do the dirty work for him, but she did tell him, since she had this girl at the house last night for dinner, that he better tell easy child daughter before she walks in the door to visit and sees him making out on the couch with another women. She will flip!!!! He told bff Jill that he never realized how high maintenance I am until he started dating Judy, who is so down to earth I think that is the funniest thing I have heard out of his mouth through this entire thing.