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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 672949" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>My hubby and I arem'the exactly on the same page. As you know, my son has been gone almost 10 weeks and there was no contact with me for 2 months. He would still call my hubby and they would talk for a few minutes, sometimes my hubby would meet him somewhere for a few minites. The conversations were usually how are you doing, what are you doing, things like that. I totally understand because my hubaby is at a different spot in this journey of ours. We do agree that the way our son treat (s) (ed) me and sometimes hubby is wrong and not acceptable (it went on for to long) and our son can no longer come to the house that is not in stone but has to be for now and probably for a long while. I talked to and visited with my son a few day, the same old pattern started so I stopped answering calls. I have not talked to him since Friday. My hubby and older son have talked to him here and there. He is living in a house with I do not know how many people. Allegedly the electric and gas are shut off. I can't worry about that. We talked about Thanksgiving and our son. If he contacts us, we both feel we should take him a plate of food and possibly have him come to where we are having Thanksgiving. Really on the fence about this. Guilt really coming in because son is early high school dropout but on the other hand seems to be pretty resourceful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 672949, member: 19678"] My hubby and I arem'the exactly on the same page. As you know, my son has been gone almost 10 weeks and there was no contact with me for 2 months. He would still call my hubby and they would talk for a few minutes, sometimes my hubby would meet him somewhere for a few minites. The conversations were usually how are you doing, what are you doing, things like that. I totally understand because my hubaby is at a different spot in this journey of ours. We do agree that the way our son treat (s) (ed) me and sometimes hubby is wrong and not acceptable (it went on for to long) and our son can no longer come to the house that is not in stone but has to be for now and probably for a long while. I talked to and visited with my son a few day, the same old pattern started so I stopped answering calls. I have not talked to him since Friday. My hubby and older son have talked to him here and there. He is living in a house with I do not know how many people. Allegedly the electric and gas are shut off. I can't worry about that. We talked about Thanksgiving and our son. If he contacts us, we both feel we should take him a plate of food and possibly have him come to where we are having Thanksgiving. Really on the fence about this. Guilt really coming in because son is early high school dropout but on the other hand seems to be pretty resourceful. [/QUOTE]
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