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<blockquote data-quote="Bunny" data-source="post: 524892"><p>What he said to me yesterday was that he felt that he was at a "standstill" with this therapist (the therapist and I don't agree, but that's another story), so I asked him this morning, calmly and quietly, if he really felt that way would he consider seeing a different therapist. He said no, that he only wants to see this therapist. I pointed out to him that he's been telling me since yesterday that he won't go back to that therapist, so he clarified his position. He wants to see this therapist, but he feels that he's at a stand still because all we talk about is him, him him! According to difficult child <strong>I'm</strong> the one with all of the problems now. <strong>I'm</strong> the one who always starts fighting with him and <strong>I'm</strong> the one who is always at fault. If I went to the therapist to work on my own problems then he would be willing to go back. He doesn't feel that any of his recent physical behavior needs to be talked about or addressed because both of those incidents were totally my fault (never mind the fact that when I called the police on Sunday it was his FATHER who he was getting physical with and cursing at). I suggested that he return to the therapist to explain his feeling about this to the therapist because I'm sure that this is something that the therapist would want to hear from him, but difficult child said that I'm the one with the problems and I should be the one to tell the therapist why he won't go back right now.</p><p></p><p>Really?</p><p></p><p>I was in contact with the therapist yesterday and he is very concerned about this recent downward behavior spiral that difficult child is having. He finds the fact that he went right back to rude and disrespectful the minute the officer left the house "alarming" and he thinks that I need to alert the psychiatrist about it. So, that is one of my phone calls today. I'll have to call the therapist to let him know about difficult child's latest comments on him going back to therapy. Hopefully we'll be able to figure something out.</p><p></p><p>therapist really feels that we are seeing the beginnings of a personality disorder emerging.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bunny, post: 524892"] What he said to me yesterday was that he felt that he was at a "standstill" with this therapist (the therapist and I don't agree, but that's another story), so I asked him this morning, calmly and quietly, if he really felt that way would he consider seeing a different therapist. He said no, that he only wants to see this therapist. I pointed out to him that he's been telling me since yesterday that he won't go back to that therapist, so he clarified his position. He wants to see this therapist, but he feels that he's at a stand still because all we talk about is him, him him! According to difficult child [B]I'm[/B] the one with all of the problems now. [B]I'm[/B] the one who always starts fighting with him and [B]I'm[/B] the one who is always at fault. If I went to the therapist to work on my own problems then he would be willing to go back. He doesn't feel that any of his recent physical behavior needs to be talked about or addressed because both of those incidents were totally my fault (never mind the fact that when I called the police on Sunday it was his FATHER who he was getting physical with and cursing at). I suggested that he return to the therapist to explain his feeling about this to the therapist because I'm sure that this is something that the therapist would want to hear from him, but difficult child said that I'm the one with the problems and I should be the one to tell the therapist why he won't go back right now. Really? I was in contact with the therapist yesterday and he is very concerned about this recent downward behavior spiral that difficult child is having. He finds the fact that he went right back to rude and disrespectful the minute the officer left the house "alarming" and he thinks that I need to alert the psychiatrist about it. So, that is one of my phone calls today. I'll have to call the therapist to let him know about difficult child's latest comments on him going back to therapy. Hopefully we'll be able to figure something out. therapist really feels that we are seeing the beginnings of a personality disorder emerging. [/QUOTE]
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