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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 594230" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Is she still spending half time with the former foster parents?</p><p></p><p>Quin has dumped drinks on people several times, sometimes to be funny, sometimes to be mean, its infuriating to me. Thank God it's been over a year at least..... And got sure I've dumped it back on him a couple of times which he did not like.....but I wish i hadn't.</p><p></p><p>These days I do what you did at the time. I barely do anything and it works best, he doesn't get a reaction. But after I remind him he made his choice....we have some things that are contingent on no aggression. So he loses allowance or phone card and though chalk of it is less, when he does get loud or threatens to do something (happy to say he hadn't touched me in a looong time) I've made it clear that that kind of thing makes me not want too help him out. Make your own breakfast, find your own special shirt, wash your own glasses....kind of like what you did with the dollar. </p><p></p><p>What are you doing with the kitten? Hope your not paying one cent toward it's upkeep. She should have to find it a home. Even if you like it, she didn't ask.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I know our kids have different issues and intent but I just wanted you to know I get how demoralizing and upsetting it can get to have your child do things like that. I wish she could get better but that isn't happening right now and you need to protect your and easy child's mental health. She should not have to leave her mother and home. I'm so sorry difficult child has done that to you two. Hugs. Big big hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 594230, member: 12886"] Is she still spending half time with the former foster parents? Quin has dumped drinks on people several times, sometimes to be funny, sometimes to be mean, its infuriating to me. Thank God it's been over a year at least..... And got sure I've dumped it back on him a couple of times which he did not like.....but I wish i hadn't. These days I do what you did at the time. I barely do anything and it works best, he doesn't get a reaction. But after I remind him he made his choice....we have some things that are contingent on no aggression. So he loses allowance or phone card and though chalk of it is less, when he does get loud or threatens to do something (happy to say he hadn't touched me in a looong time) I've made it clear that that kind of thing makes me not want too help him out. Make your own breakfast, find your own special shirt, wash your own glasses....kind of like what you did with the dollar. What are you doing with the kitten? Hope your not paying one cent toward it's upkeep. She should have to find it a home. Even if you like it, she didn't ask. Anyway, I know our kids have different issues and intent but I just wanted you to know I get how demoralizing and upsetting it can get to have your child do things like that. I wish she could get better but that isn't happening right now and you need to protect your and easy child's mental health. She should not have to leave her mother and home. I'm so sorry difficult child has done that to you two. Hugs. Big big hugs. [/QUOTE]
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