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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 642194" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>You're right. I sometimes just shake my head at the ridiculousness of my still wanting to do things for him! I know, I really, really, do know, that he's done terrible things to us, his parents! He stole from us over and over. He lied, over and over. So much and so many times. Sometimes I go over all these things and I'm mad...just SO mad! I just get angry all over again. But it never lasts. I kind of wish it would. I wish I could just stay mad and cold and not want to help.</p><p> </p><p>But I don't. It doesn't last and I start thinking about what I'm going to do for him. Right now I go to Christmas. I have NO reason to do anything for him for Christmas. Last year he completely ruined Christmas. I kind of wish we'd have done the Vegas thing. But for various reasons that wasn't an option. I've bought a few gifts for friends, but that's it. I always do Christmas. Not this year. I haven't made candy. I haven't made breads and cookies. I haven't put up any decorations. We don't even have a tree! This is the first time in my <u>life</u> I haven't had a tree. Even when I was single and even when I wasn't going to be home for Christmas, I put up a tree! So there's no festivity going on at my house and still I'm wondering what to buy him. Because he's my son. Because it's Christmas.</p><p> </p><p>I'm kind of tired of being so <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> nice.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/11-24h.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bah-humbug:" title="bah humbug :bah-humbug:" data-shortname=":bah-humbug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 642194, member: 17309"] You're right. I sometimes just shake my head at the ridiculousness of my still wanting to do things for him! I know, I really, really, do know, that he's done terrible things to us, his parents! He stole from us over and over. He lied, over and over. So much and so many times. Sometimes I go over all these things and I'm mad...just SO mad! I just get angry all over again. But it never lasts. I kind of wish it would. I wish I could just stay mad and cold and not want to help. But I don't. It doesn't last and I start thinking about what I'm going to do for him. Right now I go to Christmas. I have NO reason to do anything for him for Christmas. Last year he completely ruined Christmas. I kind of wish we'd have done the Vegas thing. But for various reasons that wasn't an option. I've bought a few gifts for friends, but that's it. I always do Christmas. Not this year. I haven't made candy. I haven't made breads and cookies. I haven't put up any decorations. We don't even have a tree! This is the first time in my [U]life[/U] I haven't had a tree. Even when I was single and even when I wasn't going to be home for Christmas, I put up a tree! So there's no festivity going on at my house and still I'm wondering what to buy him. Because he's my son. Because it's Christmas. I'm kind of tired of being so :censored2: nice. :11-24h: [/QUOTE]
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