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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 647695" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome SoTired, I'm glad you found this forum but sorry you had to.</p><p>First ((HUGS)) to you.</p><p>Second, there are years of experience on these pages from parents just like you and me who have for whatever reason have gone through it all with our adult children. You are not alone.</p><p>It's painfully obvious that you have gone above and beyond what you should have to try and help your daughter and when there are small children involved it make it that much harder.</p><p>You have gotten to the point that you can't take it anymore and as painful as that is, it's a good place to be. It's the beginning of letting go, of detaching which is the only way you will be able to find peace.</p><p>You have no control over what your daughter chooses to do with her life. Do you feel her child is any danger from her behavior? Is the childs father able to care for him?</p><p>When she calls and you know it's her let it go to voice mail. You need to set some boundaries with her. It sounds like she has had many years to manipulate you. You have to stop allowing her to do that.</p><p>Read through these pages, there is so much wonderful advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 647695, member: 18516"] Welcome SoTired, I'm glad you found this forum but sorry you had to. First ((HUGS)) to you. Second, there are years of experience on these pages from parents just like you and me who have for whatever reason have gone through it all with our adult children. You are not alone. It's painfully obvious that you have gone above and beyond what you should have to try and help your daughter and when there are small children involved it make it that much harder. You have gotten to the point that you can't take it anymore and as painful as that is, it's a good place to be. It's the beginning of letting go, of detaching which is the only way you will be able to find peace. You have no control over what your daughter chooses to do with her life. Do you feel her child is any danger from her behavior? Is the childs father able to care for him? When she calls and you know it's her let it go to voice mail. You need to set some boundaries with her. It sounds like she has had many years to manipulate you. You have to stop allowing her to do that. Read through these pages, there is so much wonderful advice. [/QUOTE]
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