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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 255542" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>While it is nice for husband that you keep his paperwork for difficult child straight, it does NOT mean you have to allow difficult child home to be a good wife. You CAN insist on a split household, or that husband insist the boy go to his mothers or another placement. I really do NOT think 45 days will be enough to make difficult child be safe to have at home. </p><p></p><p>I would be HIGHLY skeptical, and want to do a bunch of research, like reading the book suggested, etc... before you make ANY commitment of ANY kind.</p><p></p><p>I know husband loves his child. He simply must recognize the boy is flawed and damaged, likely in a permanent way. If difficult child does not get REALLY and TRULY invested in changing, rather than just learning to say what they want to hear, then even husband will be in danger from difficult child.</p><p></p><p>I must say it would be very difficult for me to allow difficult child to be in the same household as my child. No matter what occurred in placement. My child would have to be my highest concern and first priority. No matter what was best for difficult child or even husband.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 255542, member: 1233"] While it is nice for husband that you keep his paperwork for difficult child straight, it does NOT mean you have to allow difficult child home to be a good wife. You CAN insist on a split household, or that husband insist the boy go to his mothers or another placement. I really do NOT think 45 days will be enough to make difficult child be safe to have at home. I would be HIGHLY skeptical, and want to do a bunch of research, like reading the book suggested, etc... before you make ANY commitment of ANY kind. I know husband loves his child. He simply must recognize the boy is flawed and damaged, likely in a permanent way. If difficult child does not get REALLY and TRULY invested in changing, rather than just learning to say what they want to hear, then even husband will be in danger from difficult child. I must say it would be very difficult for me to allow difficult child to be in the same household as my child. No matter what occurred in placement. My child would have to be my highest concern and first priority. No matter what was best for difficult child or even husband. [/QUOTE]
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