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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 690958" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>ksm, I'm so sorry. She just isn't ready. As much as we WANT so much to help them be ready, get ready, we cannot make that happen. The fact that she is working, even though it's not like we would do it, is a plus. It sounds like she has the capability for much but not the maturity right now. That is so standard, I have found, with DCs. My son took forever to start to get it, and he will be playing catch up for a long time. He will be 27 in July and it's just in the past two years that things have really started to improve consistently. </p><p></p><p>I know that doesn't help much for you right now. This minute. Learning how to accept what is, stand back from it all as much as you can, lower your expectations to nearly zero and let go of it all (1000 times a day) is the pathway to peace. You need peace. You deserve peace. </p><p></p><p>I pray that she does more right things everyday for herself...and for you. Warm hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 690958, member: 17542"] ksm, I'm so sorry. She just isn't ready. As much as we WANT so much to help them be ready, get ready, we cannot make that happen. The fact that she is working, even though it's not like we would do it, is a plus. It sounds like she has the capability for much but not the maturity right now. That is so standard, I have found, with DCs. My son took forever to start to get it, and he will be playing catch up for a long time. He will be 27 in July and it's just in the past two years that things have really started to improve consistently. I know that doesn't help much for you right now. This minute. Learning how to accept what is, stand back from it all as much as you can, lower your expectations to nearly zero and let go of it all (1000 times a day) is the pathway to peace. You need peace. You deserve peace. I pray that she does more right things everyday for herself...and for you. Warm hugs. [/QUOTE]
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