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CFT?? Anyone ever had to go through one??
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 251154" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I haave no idea what a CFT meeting is. What does it stand for, do you know?</p><p></p><p>PLEASE try not to feel horrible about saying difficult child cannot live with you. It is for safety reasons for you AND your son AND your husband. You have to choose where difficult child can get the most help - and it ISN'T in your home. Many of us have had to make choices about things like this. </p><p></p><p>It doesn't have to be a permanent out of home placement. It can be just until he is stable and safe enough to have in your home. You are NOT kicking him out of the family. You are finding the best place to get him the help he DESPERATELY needs.</p><p></p><p>It IS hard. been there done that - cried all night into the t shirt. My oldest currently lives with my parents. He was beating me and I will not be a battered woman. Just won't. Anyway, if he doesn't get all the help he can now, in a few years you won't be able to get help for him easily because he will be 18 and an adult. So placement should be as therapeutic as possible.</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs, and let us know how the meeting goes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 251154, member: 1233"] I haave no idea what a CFT meeting is. What does it stand for, do you know? PLEASE try not to feel horrible about saying difficult child cannot live with you. It is for safety reasons for you AND your son AND your husband. You have to choose where difficult child can get the most help - and it ISN'T in your home. Many of us have had to make choices about things like this. It doesn't have to be a permanent out of home placement. It can be just until he is stable and safe enough to have in your home. You are NOT kicking him out of the family. You are finding the best place to get him the help he DESPERATELY needs. It IS hard. been there done that - cried all night into the t shirt. My oldest currently lives with my parents. He was beating me and I will not be a battered woman. Just won't. Anyway, if he doesn't get all the help he can now, in a few years you won't be able to get help for him easily because he will be 18 and an adult. So placement should be as therapeutic as possible. Gentle hugs, and let us know how the meeting goes. [/QUOTE]
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