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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 609295" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>You need to look after YOU. There is, after all, only one of you, and you need you and so do the rest of the family.</p><p>Get whatever help you can find in any direction, to deal with the stress, anxiety, etc. therapist, psychiatrist, whatever.</p><p> </p><p>And then... you need to go head to head with "them"... school and doctors.</p><p>Of course he can't tell you. Nor will he. He really doesn't KNOW. He's <em>been</em> telling everyone for years, and nobody will listen. He will tell a teacher that he can't do something that was asked, and he'll get told he just has to try harder. </p><p> </p><p>He has challenges that they and you do not see. Somehow, you have to get to the bottom of it. </p><p>If you go back in memory and think about times when you have asked difficult child about school... what kind of a response did you get? things like "the other kids bug me", or "the class is too noisy", or "I can't hear the teacher"? All of those are huge clues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 609295, member: 11791"] You need to look after YOU. There is, after all, only one of you, and you need you and so do the rest of the family. Get whatever help you can find in any direction, to deal with the stress, anxiety, etc. therapist, psychiatrist, whatever. And then... you need to go head to head with "them"... school and doctors. Of course he can't tell you. Nor will he. He really doesn't KNOW. He's [I]been[/I] telling everyone for years, and nobody will listen. He will tell a teacher that he can't do something that was asked, and he'll get told he just has to try harder. He has challenges that they and you do not see. Somehow, you have to get to the bottom of it. If you go back in memory and think about times when you have asked difficult child about school... what kind of a response did you get? things like "the other kids bug me", or "the class is too noisy", or "I can't hear the teacher"? All of those are huge clues. [/QUOTE]
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