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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 90027" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>KAREN - SHE's RIGHT!!!</p><p></p><p>WHAT EVER YOU WANT TO SAY - Don't. </p><p></p><p>I promise you till the day I die, the fact that my x tried to talk to me and I refused on every level (phone, email, letter) once his mom "outed" our whearbouts...</p><p></p><p>The fact that I had NO reaction made him NUTS. His Mom would talk about him and I would say "I have a cardinal in my yard" or she would bring him up in pictures and I would turn them face down and say "I have to go to the bathroom". </p><p></p><p>I know you THINK you want to tell him what you're thinking....but for the love of yourself DO NOT. It gives him fuel and you're telling him EXACTLY what peeves you off. Saying nothing leaves you mysterious, classy and guarantee will make him walk away going "What was all that about? No reaction, no words?" </p><p></p><p>There will be a time and a place to tell him what you think of him and THAT should be in court, in front of a judge with witnesses. IF that's how you go. </p><p></p><p>IF NOT and you ever get back with him and repair this marriage - you will be the one that never said anything ugly. Again - a very classy move. </p><p></p><p>BITE THY TONGUE. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 90027, member: 4964"] KAREN - SHE's RIGHT!!! WHAT EVER YOU WANT TO SAY - Don't. I promise you till the day I die, the fact that my x tried to talk to me and I refused on every level (phone, email, letter) once his mom "outed" our whearbouts... The fact that I had NO reaction made him NUTS. His Mom would talk about him and I would say "I have a cardinal in my yard" or she would bring him up in pictures and I would turn them face down and say "I have to go to the bathroom". I know you THINK you want to tell him what you're thinking....but for the love of yourself DO NOT. It gives him fuel and you're telling him EXACTLY what peeves you off. Saying nothing leaves you mysterious, classy and guarantee will make him walk away going "What was all that about? No reaction, no words?" There will be a time and a place to tell him what you think of him and THAT should be in court, in front of a judge with witnesses. IF that's how you go. IF NOT and you ever get back with him and repair this marriage - you will be the one that never said anything ugly. Again - a very classy move. BITE THY TONGUE. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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