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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 97276" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I sent cards that included the childrens names with mine. Only on a couple did I add a note. My note was short and simple. "Hope you have a Merry Christmas and a terrific New Year.</p><p>We are all doing fine but are going through some changes. Bob</p><p>and I are separated but are working together to make 1970 a happy</p><p>year for all of us. Love, DDD #1#2#3" More or less that was it</p><p>and it worked just fine. In your case you could easily say</p><p>brightly "easy child and I are settled in our new place @ zzz#2 Street</p><p>but our phone numbers are still the same."</p><p></p><p>My Ex remarried as soon as he could....and long before most people ever suspected that "the perfect couple" had split. We</p><p>separated 11/1 and the divorce was final 2/5. He remarried in</p><p>March and did not "forewarn" me or the children. I strongly</p><p>suggest that YOU be the one who informs people. It will avoid</p><p>embarrassment and questions later and will also show that you are</p><p>not impacted by his sorry actions. DDD</p><p></p><p>PS: Almost everyone to this day think the divorce was about the</p><p>2nd wife. I have never given any explanations...except to my husband</p><p>and a very few friends. It had nothing to do with romance. It had everything to do with parenting difficult child. Life's weird!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 97276, member: 35"] I sent cards that included the childrens names with mine. Only on a couple did I add a note. My note was short and simple. "Hope you have a Merry Christmas and a terrific New Year. We are all doing fine but are going through some changes. Bob and I are separated but are working together to make 1970 a happy year for all of us. Love, DDD #1#2#3" More or less that was it and it worked just fine. In your case you could easily say brightly "easy child and I are settled in our new place @ zzz#2 Street but our phone numbers are still the same." My Ex remarried as soon as he could....and long before most people ever suspected that "the perfect couple" had split. We separated 11/1 and the divorce was final 2/5. He remarried in March and did not "forewarn" me or the children. I strongly suggest that YOU be the one who informs people. It will avoid embarrassment and questions later and will also show that you are not impacted by his sorry actions. DDD PS: Almost everyone to this day think the divorce was about the 2nd wife. I have never given any explanations...except to my husband and a very few friends. It had nothing to do with romance. It had everything to do with parenting difficult child. Life's weird! [/QUOTE]
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