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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 401196" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sounds like you both have grown and learned a lot over the years. That is really great. It is probably a lot easier to blow up and indulge in all the drama, but it leaves everyone around it feeling yucky about it later. Kudos to you for staying calm and treating this like an adult. Kudos to him for coming clean and doing whatever you needed him to and offering/doing more. Years from now you will look back at this as a speedbump but not the enormous mountain that it could have spiralled into. Now he knows that if it happens again then he must say something earlier and you will listen to him and respond rationally. </p><p> </p><p>I am so happy for you! I have a husband who could get roped into this kind of thing. He once had this female who latched onto him in a chat room on spirituality. We couldn't be on the computer for thirty seconds with-o her wanting to chat. She tried to tell me that I was stifling him and her spirit guide told her that he was incredibly miserable and neglected in our marriage, so I had to go and let her help him raise my son and daughter because her spirit guide told her it was "destined in the stars". He was terribly embarrassed and didn't know how to make her leave. He asked for help and when reasonable didn't work I had some fun. I have a slightly twisted sense of humor. She started in on my dark energy and how it was so powerful that I had to remove it or risk permanently damaging husband and Wiz. I told her that if my energy went out to damage anyone it wouldn't be my guys - it would be some cyber tart who wants to tramp all over the internet anddestroy marriages. then I said that I was a powerfuldruid priestess, daughter of an even more powerful druid priest (orthodox, reformed of course) and I had been channeling my energy and guiding it to go and take careof her. That so far it was just a warm blanket around her, but if she didn't leave my men alone then that blanket would become dark and thick and would choke all the positive out of her life and sap the power and will from her spirit guide, sending it to guide her from Satan's Realm. I then said some nonsense in Latin (and y'all thought you couldn't have any fun with high school Latin, didn't ya?) and she started begging my forgiveness and promising not to contact us again, yada yada yada. </p><p> </p><p>I guess we are strange because the only thing that bugged me was that she kept interrupting, even doing something so the computer would ask if we were there (loudly) throughout the day. Every 30 seconds during dinner, and so on. Luckily husband is able to enjoy my sense of humor so he had some fun with the Druid priestess thing. (My parents sent me to Catholic school but the school kept sending forms home asking for our religion. NO ONE in the school up until that time had ever not been Catholic. My lovely (eyeroll here) father started filling out every one of thoe papers with "Druid, Orthodoc, reformed", I got MORE sessions with nuns and/or the priest about pagan practices in teh home and how it was a sin blah blah blah. They stopped when I told them that I had answered the questions already but if they wanted to keep asking them I would find the answers (up to then I said I was Cath and didn't have a clue about the others) and then come and give a demo to the class dressed however Druid priestesses dressed. THAT was supposed to get a detention, but I asked if that was because they were persecuting me because of my father's religious beliefs . They sure were glad when I changed schools a year later.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 401196, member: 1233"] Sounds like you both have grown and learned a lot over the years. That is really great. It is probably a lot easier to blow up and indulge in all the drama, but it leaves everyone around it feeling yucky about it later. Kudos to you for staying calm and treating this like an adult. Kudos to him for coming clean and doing whatever you needed him to and offering/doing more. Years from now you will look back at this as a speedbump but not the enormous mountain that it could have spiralled into. Now he knows that if it happens again then he must say something earlier and you will listen to him and respond rationally. I am so happy for you! I have a husband who could get roped into this kind of thing. He once had this female who latched onto him in a chat room on spirituality. We couldn't be on the computer for thirty seconds with-o her wanting to chat. She tried to tell me that I was stifling him and her spirit guide told her that he was incredibly miserable and neglected in our marriage, so I had to go and let her help him raise my son and daughter because her spirit guide told her it was "destined in the stars". He was terribly embarrassed and didn't know how to make her leave. He asked for help and when reasonable didn't work I had some fun. I have a slightly twisted sense of humor. She started in on my dark energy and how it was so powerful that I had to remove it or risk permanently damaging husband and Wiz. I told her that if my energy went out to damage anyone it wouldn't be my guys - it would be some cyber tart who wants to tramp all over the internet anddestroy marriages. then I said that I was a powerfuldruid priestess, daughter of an even more powerful druid priest (orthodox, reformed of course) and I had been channeling my energy and guiding it to go and take careof her. That so far it was just a warm blanket around her, but if she didn't leave my men alone then that blanket would become dark and thick and would choke all the positive out of her life and sap the power and will from her spirit guide, sending it to guide her from Satan's Realm. I then said some nonsense in Latin (and y'all thought you couldn't have any fun with high school Latin, didn't ya?) and she started begging my forgiveness and promising not to contact us again, yada yada yada. I guess we are strange because the only thing that bugged me was that she kept interrupting, even doing something so the computer would ask if we were there (loudly) throughout the day. Every 30 seconds during dinner, and so on. Luckily husband is able to enjoy my sense of humor so he had some fun with the Druid priestess thing. (My parents sent me to Catholic school but the school kept sending forms home asking for our religion. NO ONE in the school up until that time had ever not been Catholic. My lovely (eyeroll here) father started filling out every one of thoe papers with "Druid, Orthodoc, reformed", I got MORE sessions with nuns and/or the priest about pagan practices in teh home and how it was a sin blah blah blah. They stopped when I told them that I had answered the questions already but if they wanted to keep asking them I would find the answers (up to then I said I was Cath and didn't have a clue about the others) and then come and give a demo to the class dressed however Druid priestesses dressed. THAT was supposed to get a detention, but I asked if that was because they were persecuting me because of my father's religious beliefs . They sure were glad when I changed schools a year later. [/QUOTE]
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