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<blockquote data-quote="KTMom91" data-source="post: 373414" data-attributes="member: 4040"><p>I saw your post earlier today, but wanted to think over my response. </p><p></p><p>When I told Useless Boy I was pregnant, he asked me how much an abortion was. When I pointed out that I would not have told him I was pregnant if that had been my plan, he shut up, but he worked really hard on improving his P/A skills, finally reaching near perfection about the time I threw him out four years later. His crowning glory was signing that he was served with a copy of our divorce papers on February 31, delaying the divorce another six flippin' months. But I digress.</p><p></p><p>As some of the other ladies have asked, are you able to do this on your own if you need to? Financially support your three kids and yourself? Do you have a solid support system of friends and relatives in place? I'm glad your mom's reaction was better than you expected; can you count on your folks to be there for you? I realized I could not count on UB for much of anything, and made decisions that would most likely have been different had we actually been partners instead of combatants. Your hubby's attitude may change, or it may not, but either way, you need to do whatever is best for you and for all three of your kids.</p><p></p><p>Many, many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KTMom91, post: 373414, member: 4040"] I saw your post earlier today, but wanted to think over my response. When I told Useless Boy I was pregnant, he asked me how much an abortion was. When I pointed out that I would not have told him I was pregnant if that had been my plan, he shut up, but he worked really hard on improving his P/A skills, finally reaching near perfection about the time I threw him out four years later. His crowning glory was signing that he was served with a copy of our divorce papers on February 31, delaying the divorce another six flippin' months. But I digress. As some of the other ladies have asked, are you able to do this on your own if you need to? Financially support your three kids and yourself? Do you have a solid support system of friends and relatives in place? I'm glad your mom's reaction was better than you expected; can you count on your folks to be there for you? I realized I could not count on UB for much of anything, and made decisions that would most likely have been different had we actually been partners instead of combatants. Your hubby's attitude may change, or it may not, but either way, you need to do whatever is best for you and for all three of your kids. Many, many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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