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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 468902" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>The infraction was at school. He's getting consequences at school. Why do you feel that consequences at home are also in order? Oh, that's right, the rest of the family thinks they are in order. But WHY?</p><p></p><p>The ONLY time I give additional consequences at home for school infractions is when I feel the school's consequences weren't sufficient. That translates into ZERO times I've issued consequences at home for a school infraction. Unless you count classwork and tests not completed in school become homework. THEN I <strong>can't</strong> count how many times I've done it.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I don't see what good a home consequence would do for a school infraction unless it was a closely related thing, like after school, he walks himself somewhere, but since he's proven to be a "flight risk" at school, maybe not allow the independent walking at home. That would be something relate-able, and a teaching about trust and responsibility moment, but otherwise, I see no reason for consequences at home if he got them in school.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 468902, member: 11965"] The infraction was at school. He's getting consequences at school. Why do you feel that consequences at home are also in order? Oh, that's right, the rest of the family thinks they are in order. But WHY? The ONLY time I give additional consequences at home for school infractions is when I feel the school's consequences weren't sufficient. That translates into ZERO times I've issued consequences at home for a school infraction. Unless you count classwork and tests not completed in school become homework. THEN I [B]can't[/B] count how many times I've done it. Anyway, I don't see what good a home consequence would do for a school infraction unless it was a closely related thing, like after school, he walks himself somewhere, but since he's proven to be a "flight risk" at school, maybe not allow the independent walking at home. That would be something relate-able, and a teaching about trust and responsibility moment, but otherwise, I see no reason for consequences at home if he got them in school. [/QUOTE]
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