Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Cops called, wife gone
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 352549" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>The "motion" she and her mother are asking you to drop- is that the separation or a protective order? because I can't see it being logiccal to flip out over you filing for separation and reacting to it by then filing for divorce. I can, however, see that finishing law school and prepping for those exams would be extrememly stressful and probably contributing to her instability and explosive behavior and I didn't catch this piece of information before. But it would appear that the most beneficial thing she could do under those circumstancees would be to agree to a separation until she gets that stuff over with. A divorce process would be even more stressful on her than a separation where you are willing to keep custody of the kids, let her get the tests over, and get treatment, then reevaluate. To me, this would be a reasonable compromise while keeping everyone safe. I don't think I would force an issue that made her choose between all the treatment and family issues or completing a degree that she almost has done and getting a professional license- that is almost guaranteed to make anyone explosive and resentful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 352549, member: 3699"] The "motion" she and her mother are asking you to drop- is that the separation or a protective order? because I can't see it being logiccal to flip out over you filing for separation and reacting to it by then filing for divorce. I can, however, see that finishing law school and prepping for those exams would be extrememly stressful and probably contributing to her instability and explosive behavior and I didn't catch this piece of information before. But it would appear that the most beneficial thing she could do under those circumstancees would be to agree to a separation until she gets that stuff over with. A divorce process would be even more stressful on her than a separation where you are willing to keep custody of the kids, let her get the tests over, and get treatment, then reevaluate. To me, this would be a reasonable compromise while keeping everyone safe. I don't think I would force an issue that made her choose between all the treatment and family issues or completing a degree that she almost has done and getting a professional license- that is almost guaranteed to make anyone explosive and resentful. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Cops called, wife gone
Top