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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 353895" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>There is a difference between "going along with" and "letting it slide".</p><p> </p><p>If you make it clear (in writing is <strong>best </strong>for documentation purposes) that you do not appreciate the violations and will not tolerate them, and she keeps it up - she looks bad... And you look good for trying to communicate, letting the kids see their Mom, etc. If you say nothing, it makes you look as if you don't care. However when you make it clear to her? Be so polite it makes your teeth hurt. Whatever you do, do NOT engage her in any kind of debate over unrelated issues.</p><p> </p><p>If she is threatening you via email? Set up your email to automatically forward them to your lawyer. Let him know first, of course. Do NOT reply unless it seems required - such as, if she asks if it is okay to have an unsupervised visit because Grandma is not up to it. The response (to that) would be... "I am sorry, but the court order does not allow for that. If Grandma is ill, we can reschedule the visit for a time she is feeling better." See what I mean? So polite your teeth hurt.</p><p> </p><p>You should be able to get a copy of the police report in less than a day. Call the PD, tell them what you want, then take money with you because they will charge you per page - but worth it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 353895, member: 6705"] There is a difference between "going along with" and "letting it slide". If you make it clear (in writing is [B]best [/B]for documentation purposes) that you do not appreciate the violations and will not tolerate them, and she keeps it up - she looks bad... And you look good for trying to communicate, letting the kids see their Mom, etc. If you say nothing, it makes you look as if you don't care. However when you make it clear to her? Be so polite it makes your teeth hurt. Whatever you do, do NOT engage her in any kind of debate over unrelated issues. If she is threatening you via email? Set up your email to automatically forward them to your lawyer. Let him know first, of course. Do NOT reply unless it seems required - such as, if she asks if it is okay to have an unsupervised visit because Grandma is not up to it. The response (to that) would be... "I am sorry, but the court order does not allow for that. If Grandma is ill, we can reschedule the visit for a time she is feeling better." See what I mean? So polite your teeth hurt. You should be able to get a copy of the police report in less than a day. Call the PD, tell them what you want, then take money with you because they will charge you per page - but worth it. [/QUOTE]
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