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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 414664" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>so she never showed up last night. i got like 5 hours of sleep. we locked door. woke up early today called school she didnt' report their either. therapist (her's) said report her missing if this happens. such a formality at this point. so i have to in a few minutes get the cops here.</p><p> </p><p>poor difficult child who was asking about her sister last night and feeling something wasnt' right now has to see cops again. all of this is so not what i pictured in raising kids.</p><p> </p><p>i sat back last night and said what if i wasn't a good parent, what would my kids be doing than? i mean in all seriousness. it's like my feet in sand spinning with both of them and never getting anywhere. all pointless.</p><p> </p><p>so its' really sad. and whatever parents are allowing her to stay there and not go to school really sad again. she's ruining her life and there isn't a thing i can do about it at all. very hard for me not to be able to try to fix it.</p><p> </p><p>yet i gotta get a grip because i'm a mess and hurting and i have other kids that need me. yet i just love her so much and she's so in need of help. what is she thinking???</p><p> </p><p>oh well, won't be a normal day here unfortunately. gotta tell difficult child now a diff version of what's going on. she adores easy child, they argue yet she looks up to her. easy child just ruined her chances at graduation by not showing up today at school after mtg yesterday it was stated tmrw's a brand new slate.</p><p> </p><p>fact is when i moved out same exact age by the way, kinda creepy the whole karma thing. i had a ft job a good head on my shoulders, an apt. going to college at night. i did it because i couldnt' take the craziness of my parents anymore. it was a good decision for me.</p><p> </p><p>yet this child is a mess out there right now and that's why detatching is a hard thing to do for me. i cant' imagine you guys that went thru it how you did it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 414664, member: 4514"] so she never showed up last night. i got like 5 hours of sleep. we locked door. woke up early today called school she didnt' report their either. therapist (her's) said report her missing if this happens. such a formality at this point. so i have to in a few minutes get the cops here. poor difficult child who was asking about her sister last night and feeling something wasnt' right now has to see cops again. all of this is so not what i pictured in raising kids. i sat back last night and said what if i wasn't a good parent, what would my kids be doing than? i mean in all seriousness. it's like my feet in sand spinning with both of them and never getting anywhere. all pointless. so its' really sad. and whatever parents are allowing her to stay there and not go to school really sad again. she's ruining her life and there isn't a thing i can do about it at all. very hard for me not to be able to try to fix it. yet i gotta get a grip because i'm a mess and hurting and i have other kids that need me. yet i just love her so much and she's so in need of help. what is she thinking??? oh well, won't be a normal day here unfortunately. gotta tell difficult child now a diff version of what's going on. she adores easy child, they argue yet she looks up to her. easy child just ruined her chances at graduation by not showing up today at school after mtg yesterday it was stated tmrw's a brand new slate. fact is when i moved out same exact age by the way, kinda creepy the whole karma thing. i had a ft job a good head on my shoulders, an apt. going to college at night. i did it because i couldnt' take the craziness of my parents anymore. it was a good decision for me. yet this child is a mess out there right now and that's why detatching is a hard thing to do for me. i cant' imagine you guys that went thru it how you did it. [/QUOTE]
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