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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 509175"><p>Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I know how it feels when it "hits" you. Boy, do I know that. I saw principal in the grocery store the other day and I'VE been having PTSD since. The immense hatred I feel for the people that did that to my son. I understand completely having that "unfamiliar" feeling. You're hurting (and beating yourself up for not having ESP) and what you are feeling now is completely normal. Right now I'm feeling the same way about that cop. I have "visions" of doing what I would really like to do to him (but would NEVER have the guts to do it, DUH).</p><p></p><p>I just don't get these people either and your "Momma Bear" is coming to life. Your intense need to protect Q from ALL harm. THAT is what we are supposed to do isn't it? The trouble is neither of us has ESP so we can never be 100% SURE of anything. We just do the best we can with what we've got and hope for the best.</p><p></p><p>Let C go to the meeting. Explain to her EXACTLY how you are feeling. I'm sure she will understand as much as she is able. Let her be your voice at that meeting. Let HER at 'em. Let her do her job.</p><p></p><p>If you need to talk, I'm up. Probably will be for awhile. I am thinking of all the things I have to do before court and all the records I need to get yet. Just realized I NEED to get the paperwork from difficult child 1's ER visit that night. That doctor specifically said "he's not a danger to himself or others". If that's the case, WHY are charges being pressed in the first place. THAT will also help our case.</p><p></p><p>Call me if you need to. If nothing else, we can cry on each other's shoulders.....literally or figuratively.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 509175"] Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I know how it feels when it "hits" you. Boy, do I know that. I saw principal in the grocery store the other day and I'VE been having PTSD since. The immense hatred I feel for the people that did that to my son. I understand completely having that "unfamiliar" feeling. You're hurting (and beating yourself up for not having ESP) and what you are feeling now is completely normal. Right now I'm feeling the same way about that cop. I have "visions" of doing what I would really like to do to him (but would NEVER have the guts to do it, DUH). I just don't get these people either and your "Momma Bear" is coming to life. Your intense need to protect Q from ALL harm. THAT is what we are supposed to do isn't it? The trouble is neither of us has ESP so we can never be 100% SURE of anything. We just do the best we can with what we've got and hope for the best. Let C go to the meeting. Explain to her EXACTLY how you are feeling. I'm sure she will understand as much as she is able. Let her be your voice at that meeting. Let HER at 'em. Let her do her job. If you need to talk, I'm up. Probably will be for awhile. I am thinking of all the things I have to do before court and all the records I need to get yet. Just realized I NEED to get the paperwork from difficult child 1's ER visit that night. That doctor specifically said "he's not a danger to himself or others". If that's the case, WHY are charges being pressed in the first place. THAT will also help our case. Call me if you need to. If nothing else, we can cry on each other's shoulders.....literally or figuratively. [/QUOTE]
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