Counselor says difficult child is addicted to adrenaline rush

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by FlowerGarden, Jan 18, 2007.

  1. FlowerGarden

    FlowerGarden Active Member

    difficult child has been going to a counselor that specializes in Anger Management. difficult child likes for me to stay in the room with him for the appointment. When the counselor asked him if he thought he'd feel better if he stopped raging, difficult child replied that he didn't think so. He said that he feels better after being angry & raging. The counselor got out paperwork from his cabinet and read a paragraph to us that talked about being addicted to having an adrenaline rush. I've always said that difficult child is so hard to get moving in the morning that it's like he's not happy until we have a fight. Some people like to start their day with a cup of coffee, he likes to start his with an argument!

    So, I did a quick search and came up with a sight that had quite a few articles on anger. I never heard of it before but the people addicted to adrenaline are called Rageaholics.
  2. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Very interesting! Thanks for sharing.
  3. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    I accept that premise. Sorry it's your difficult child. DDD
  4. timer lady

    timer lady Queen of Hearts

    I have often said that the tweedles cannot live with-o chaos. I asked one therapist if he thought they were addicted to the chaos. He answered that the tweedles didn't know anything but chaos, probably from the womb.

    I believe what your therapist told you & difficult child today.
  5. rejectedmom

    rejectedmom New Member

    I can believe that. -RM
  6. Sara PA

    Sara PA New Member

    Keep in mind, too, that anxiety can trigger the Fight or Flight response. Someone quite anxious about something might explode in a rage as part of the Fight response. Once the emotion is released, the anxiety lessens and the person can function more normally. Doing it repeatedly may be indicative of an on going highly stressful situation, not addiction to the feeling.
  7. SomewhereOutThere

    SomewhereOutThere Well-Known Member

    Another thing: Anyone with bipolar mania (or hypomania) knows that, when in that state of mind, you crave excitement. It's not an addiction. It's part of the mood disorder. When it is treated and taken care of there is no longer the need to live on the edge.