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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 327854" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>in fighting for your/my son....you said it better with....</p><p>>I just hope that he comes to realize what he has done before it's too late. I also hopes that he makes peace with GOD for his doings and the lies that he has told...</p><p></p><p>I am in detachment but I really can't fully detach since I am still</p><p>in protective mode over the youngest. But if I didn't have a youngest one,</p><p>or the divorce proceedings, I'd be so done with all of the nonsense that they'd have to find a new word for DONE. So, I stay aware, but I don't care. I also truly love all of my kids. But for some kids, their behavior will destroy anyone in their paths, and I can only pray that all of these children find a better path in life, and that others might learn from what we have gone through.</p><p></p><p>>I am NOT fighting for my son. difficult child will continue to live with his father until whenever...</p><p></p><p>yup. that's the next battle alright. it's the whenever part that scares us all. I wouldn't dare accept either of my oldest two EVER. I guess what I was trying to say is that, for some of us, we are battling with the child, others are battling with the child & their enablers (like Dex). My oldest two were and are enabled and for those of us suffering in this/that situation, we worry what happens when the enabling ends? Or who will these kids manipulate or control or abuse next? Besides themselves? Many people here are dealing with those exact issues. To all those people, remember that there are a lot of us listening and learning <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>And no, we aren't the only parents who's kids have arrested or physically hurt them. I am positive that the stuff I went through could have been</p><p>a hell of a lot worse....like for you..losing your job and insurance. I'm sure others here, lurking or non, have been through even worse, unfortunately.</p><p></p><p>Find someone "unbiased" to listen to you, either on the web or in real life, and keep reading on how to protect yourself and others in what's to come. Many hugs to you and those offering you support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 327854, member: 8202"] in fighting for your/my son....you said it better with.... >I just hope that he comes to realize what he has done before it's too late. I also hopes that he makes peace with GOD for his doings and the lies that he has told... I am in detachment but I really can't fully detach since I am still in protective mode over the youngest. But if I didn't have a youngest one, or the divorce proceedings, I'd be so done with all of the nonsense that they'd have to find a new word for DONE. So, I stay aware, but I don't care. I also truly love all of my kids. But for some kids, their behavior will destroy anyone in their paths, and I can only pray that all of these children find a better path in life, and that others might learn from what we have gone through. >I am NOT fighting for my son. difficult child will continue to live with his father until whenever... yup. that's the next battle alright. it's the whenever part that scares us all. I wouldn't dare accept either of my oldest two EVER. I guess what I was trying to say is that, for some of us, we are battling with the child, others are battling with the child & their enablers (like Dex). My oldest two were and are enabled and for those of us suffering in this/that situation, we worry what happens when the enabling ends? Or who will these kids manipulate or control or abuse next? Besides themselves? Many people here are dealing with those exact issues. To all those people, remember that there are a lot of us listening and learning :) And no, we aren't the only parents who's kids have arrested or physically hurt them. I am positive that the stuff I went through could have been a hell of a lot worse....like for you..losing your job and insurance. I'm sure others here, lurking or non, have been through even worse, unfortunately. Find someone "unbiased" to listen to you, either on the web or in real life, and keep reading on how to protect yourself and others in what's to come. Many hugs to you and those offering you support. [/QUOTE]
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