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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 72937" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>hugs honey. no questions. sometimes it takes people a really long time to grow up. at least while in jail systems of some sort Ant seems to get his head on a bit straighter.</p><p></p><p>What he does or does not do, YOU are a wonderful person. You are loved by many who wish nothing but the best for you and your family. We KNOW you have done your best. We KNOW that whatever you do will fit the situation and be what you can handle. First be kind to yourself, then to kaleb and boyfriend. Ant and Kaleb's mom are adults, though not mature. You can only be a supportive role in Kaleb's life if you are in it.</p><p></p><p>by the way, exactly WHO does ant think will drive Kaleb to the jail if you won't?? Kaleb's mom?? I think not. then who???</p><p></p><p>If you feel it is a bad place for Kaleb to be, then don't take him.</p><p></p><p>You might want to look into the work of Dr. Glasser. Choice Therapy and Reality Therapy. My mother in law teaches this all over the world IN PRISON SYSTEMS. They work with inmate who have NO chance of ever being released, but who have decided to change their life anyway. I have a feeling my son will need more of this as he travels through life, and I do have one of the books. I found it fscinating. My mother in law actually teaches men and women in prison how to help counsel other prisoners (ones who have a chance to get out) how to cope, how to make choices and deal with REALITY. It is wonderful stuff, for when you want to look into it (IF you do). I have been very impressed with the results in one of hte women's prisons here in OK. I can find out if there are any programs in your state, if you want.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and help planting and mowing. Maybe you and Kaleb can plant a tree for his daddy. Something to tend when you can't tend your son. You could even hug it. I know a woman who found this helpful.</p><p></p><p>Hugs hugs hugs</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 72937, member: 1233"] hugs honey. no questions. sometimes it takes people a really long time to grow up. at least while in jail systems of some sort Ant seems to get his head on a bit straighter. What he does or does not do, YOU are a wonderful person. You are loved by many who wish nothing but the best for you and your family. We KNOW you have done your best. We KNOW that whatever you do will fit the situation and be what you can handle. First be kind to yourself, then to kaleb and boyfriend. Ant and Kaleb's mom are adults, though not mature. You can only be a supportive role in Kaleb's life if you are in it. by the way, exactly WHO does ant think will drive Kaleb to the jail if you won't?? Kaleb's mom?? I think not. then who??? If you feel it is a bad place for Kaleb to be, then don't take him. You might want to look into the work of Dr. Glasser. Choice Therapy and Reality Therapy. My mother in law teaches this all over the world IN PRISON SYSTEMS. They work with inmate who have NO chance of ever being released, but who have decided to change their life anyway. I have a feeling my son will need more of this as he travels through life, and I do have one of the books. I found it fscinating. My mother in law actually teaches men and women in prison how to help counsel other prisoners (ones who have a chance to get out) how to cope, how to make choices and deal with REALITY. It is wonderful stuff, for when you want to look into it (IF you do). I have been very impressed with the results in one of hte women's prisons here in OK. I can find out if there are any programs in your state, if you want. Hugs and help planting and mowing. Maybe you and Kaleb can plant a tree for his daddy. Something to tend when you can't tend your son. You could even hug it. I know a woman who found this helpful. Hugs hugs hugs Susie [/QUOTE]
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