So, this happend over a month ago,my 5 year old was using the restroom when my 9 month old (at the time) started banging his toy on the bathroom door and my 5 year old opened it and let him in , I grabbed the baby and moved him away from the bathroom and into the hall, he then crawled as fast as he could back to the door, I didn't see him and began closing the door, his finger was near the hinges of the door so I starting shutting it then realized what happend grabbed him it was awful anyway you could imagine how hysterical I was, my 9 month old was injured and I did it. all the meat and skin was off the tip of his finger. The bone wasn't broken. anyway I called 911 and first 3 cops showed up begging to go inside and take a look around the house I kept saying no crying holding my hurt baby and they kept asking. My children refused to take a nap that day and the house was pretty darn messy, no messes more than a day old but there were messes. the kitchen table was so cluttered and the floors had not been swept yet that day and it was around noon. the boys had just flooded the bathroom during their bath just 2 minutes before the accident and there were wet towels hanging all over hte bathroom and my kids were still half naked. but no messes more than a day old. busy bad day I was having. baby was teething and my 2 year old was throwing tantrums that day. Finally I told the cops "whatever just go in" So anyway the cops called CPS even tho they only saw 3 rooms in the house. ( I know cause I made sure I went in with them.) well, first they kept asking me stupid questions like what was my and my husbands diagnosis if we had any and what was wrong with my 5 year old. Ianswerd them cause I was so upset and oh my gosh it was crazy.
The cop told CPS the condition of our house was bad and we had roaches. we had roaches?, cps came over I showed them inside every cabnent proving there were no roaches anywhere but the case was already opened by then and even though my house was completley spotless when they showed up, my case was opened and they were not going to close it anytime soon. Oh I forgot to mention how this happened on a Friday and our caseworker they assigned to us was absent that day and not going to back till Monday we lost our children until Monday evening after many many calls to her she showed up finally around 5:30. the kids were at my moms. She said she wants a full medical assesment done on my husband and I both and that this appears to be an accident BUT we both had medical conditions. I have ADHD and my husband has PTSD from a recent deployment.! she said we both HAVE to see a physiatrist and take whatever medications are described to us!!! what! I explained our problems were under conrtoll she didn't care.
She wants to speak to my sons school, my kids doctors, and my husband and my doctor! My neighbors are so nosey on top of all this and keep walking by my house trying to hear any conversation anyone has at my house, even my company has noticed them doing it so it's not my imagination. the school, doctors everyone knows now! nobody knows why but they know I have a case with CPS!!! CPS ask me if my husband or I have any native american in our family, if anyone in our family has mental health conditions, they ask about how many siblings we each have with each parent and if they are married where they live and their kids info, wth! what do I do I can't afford a lawyer but I guess it's the same price as a cytriotist I may. (I can't spell that).
I don't undesrstand why we are being harrased they are really nosey about my husbands information and everytime I question her she says "I HAVE to know." she said "I know it's going to seem like I am getting in all of your personal buisness and invading, and that's cause I am" Has this happened to any of you? I have searched online and I can't find info on what questions I don't have to answer, what questions I should ask them or anything. we REALLY don't want a lawyer with christmas coming up and us trying to buy a house in a few months, what should I do to get them to go AWAY she says we have to have someone come over and stay here for 6 hours a week to 'watch' us as a family. I don't want that. I feel like all my rights were removed. everytime I see that cop now in public (we live in a very very small town) he just looks away. (the one that called.) I'm upset any advice?! she is coming back the 30th to get our reporst from our '' physiatrist that we are not going to go to seeing as we just decided a few days before not to get my husband and i on medical insurance for a while. (oops)
The cop told CPS the condition of our house was bad and we had roaches. we had roaches?, cps came over I showed them inside every cabnent proving there were no roaches anywhere but the case was already opened by then and even though my house was completley spotless when they showed up, my case was opened and they were not going to close it anytime soon. Oh I forgot to mention how this happened on a Friday and our caseworker they assigned to us was absent that day and not going to back till Monday we lost our children until Monday evening after many many calls to her she showed up finally around 5:30. the kids were at my moms. She said she wants a full medical assesment done on my husband and I both and that this appears to be an accident BUT we both had medical conditions. I have ADHD and my husband has PTSD from a recent deployment.! she said we both HAVE to see a physiatrist and take whatever medications are described to us!!! what! I explained our problems were under conrtoll she didn't care.
She wants to speak to my sons school, my kids doctors, and my husband and my doctor! My neighbors are so nosey on top of all this and keep walking by my house trying to hear any conversation anyone has at my house, even my company has noticed them doing it so it's not my imagination. the school, doctors everyone knows now! nobody knows why but they know I have a case with CPS!!! CPS ask me if my husband or I have any native american in our family, if anyone in our family has mental health conditions, they ask about how many siblings we each have with each parent and if they are married where they live and their kids info, wth! what do I do I can't afford a lawyer but I guess it's the same price as a cytriotist I may. (I can't spell that).
I don't undesrstand why we are being harrased they are really nosey about my husbands information and everytime I question her she says "I HAVE to know." she said "I know it's going to seem like I am getting in all of your personal buisness and invading, and that's cause I am" Has this happened to any of you? I have searched online and I can't find info on what questions I don't have to answer, what questions I should ask them or anything. we REALLY don't want a lawyer with christmas coming up and us trying to buy a house in a few months, what should I do to get them to go AWAY she says we have to have someone come over and stay here for 6 hours a week to 'watch' us as a family. I don't want that. I feel like all my rights were removed. everytime I see that cop now in public (we live in a very very small town) he just looks away. (the one that called.) I'm upset any advice?! she is coming back the 30th to get our reporst from our '' physiatrist that we are not going to go to seeing as we just decided a few days before not to get my husband and i on medical insurance for a while. (oops)